hi mummies, thanks for the reassurances. it's helpful to hear from fellow mummies-of-2...i always feel better after venting here and reading your suggestions and encouragements...love u all.
Tiffany, matty sleeps with his grandparents. he used to sleep with us but now mea is in the room, no space for another cot so we moved him. i miss the times when he would wake up in the morning, stand in his cot and call "ah meee" (that's his version of "mummy"). Yah I am grateful that my maid loves kids so much and takes care of him well. you're right maid tend to give in to the babies, so my boy always go to her when we try to discipline him. so it's like we're the bad guys and she's the good guy. Just hope that he will come back to me...
junnie yapp i am taking him out for his evening walk and trying to read/play with him, etc. trying to spend more time with him. but think yest i carried him too much my wound area is aching again.
doobom, thanks for sharing abt your nephews and nieces...i look forward to sending him to cc next year so at least he wun be so overly dependent on my maid anymore...
Ling, my problem is not that matty is clingy to me, but that he doesn't want me...hahaha...
dodo, glad u came to a decision already! will be praying everything goes well
Jovialz, hahahah caelen so cute lah replace the word...matty recently started saying "shit". must be overhear the daddy/granddad cussing in the car when there's bad drivers around.