hi all,
been reading the forum but haven't had the time/energy to post messages up...
wenwen,
please take good care of your health, k? have faith in the decision that you have made, that what you are going to do is what's best, given your current circumstances. stay positive and be there for your little Marcus.
pinky
long time no hear from you. i currently still on leave. ur bb so gd, 2 mths can sleep thru alr, my bb still wake up twice at night for milk, sigh... my boy also trying to turn, but gets stuck halfway and starts to cry in frustration, poor boy!
hippo, joyce
my boy also can migrate to a different position, yes, almost 90 degrees by the time he wakes up. he's outgrowing the cot alr, with the way he moves to various angles. so worried that he will hit his head against the cot, thinking of putting him to sleep on the mattress instead. but if sleep on the mattress, cannot put the mobile there, which he likes to stare at...
frostyfiona,
re: childcare
my mum is working part-time and there's already a maid taking care of my niece there. i'm not comfy to have 2 maids there caring for 2 children, without any supervision from my parents, worried that they may do something risky. thus, tot of putting the maid home alone with my bb. but my hubby not in favour of webcam, coz if he feels that if anything happens, it would be too late by then.
but as one mummy commented, i wonder if i should 'take the good with the bad' n put the baby with my MIL, despite me not v.happy with my MIL's pinching pennies, paranoid, critical and not understanding ways, though in terms of safety for the bb, at least there's 1 adult around. sigh... big dilemma.
oh yes, btw, any mummies have idea when to start bb on playgroups,etc and is there one on a daily basis and how long is the general duration?
jovial
think my bb also overweight, haven't 3 mths but hit the 7kg mark alr. but if i dun feed him, he gets hungry n angry very fast. dunno how leh. when bring him to the PD, better check with PD if he's overweight n what i should do. dun wanna put bb on diet so soon leh, so poor thing...
unice,
u v.garang to bring bb out. till now, i still dun dare to bring bb out, in case he suddenly becomes cranky n makes a scene, i dunno how to react, i can't shove him my breast to shut him up!!! he now drinks only EBM.
recently invested in a baby sling but can't put him in properly, his butt kept slipping out of the sling, so got to hold him gingerly. guess i need more practice with the sling!!!