hi bbwow, im looking after bb on my own. very very tiring. I noticed my bm supply went down tremendously after CL left. Guess not enuff sleep ba. Ppl always tell me, baby sleep, you sleep. My baby seldom takes afternn nap now. Have oso less than 1 hr will wake up, and needs to be carried. Then sleep 15-30mins wake up again, all very short periods. How am I gg to get my sleep? So sleepy.
Looks like we all have fair share of dirty CLs. My CL oso very unhygienic.
Once, when I was changing bb's diaper coz its wet, I noticed that she didnt clean lyn's groin area properly, so I wiped it down with wet wipes and it came up yellow! POO STAINS! I went on to wipe her vagina and it came up dirty too! To add on to my frustrations, there were abit of poo poo on the cap of the diaper barrier cream! She is so dirty!
She tried feeding lyn immediately after a diaper change, without washing her hands 1st.
She likes to overfeed my baby too. There have been a few times I caught her trying to feed baby with more milk than she shld be drinking, to which she will insist that its only normal for the little one to be drinking so much. Everytime the baby cry, she will insist that baby is hungry. Once, baby continued crying after she was fed. She said I gave too little milk, so she insisted I give her more, end up lyn drank like 100ml in total. Shortly, she threw up most of the milk, and continued crying. Turns out she wanted to be cuddled after the feed and it wasnt becoz she is hungry. She was only a week+ old.
She mops the oily kitchen, RINSE the mop, then mop the WHOLE hse with that mop.
She turned my kitchen into grease heaven
She dropped a clean storage cup onto the oily floor and rinse it before putting it back. Turned back to see if anyone is looking, saw me looking at her, then rewash the said storage cup with soap this time.
She walked into my bedroom once, when I was on the phone and patting lyn in the living room. When she came out and saw me looking at her( I had my back to her earlier on), she said something like " Oh oh, never see ur room before! Just see see"
She is nosey and likes to ask how much did we pay for the dog, how much is the cats, how much is the plasma tv, how much is this, how much is that.
Likes to comment that I didnt pour 100ml of milk into the storage cup, coz when she pours it out into the milk bottle, its only 95ml or slightly more.
Always insist I pour more milk into a storage cup, but when baby can't finish, she throws the excess away! HALLO! My nipples is so sore from all the pumping, even wearing a bra hurts! Treasure my milk lah! She can always pour more out from other cups, if a feed is not enough. Why insist I pump more into each cup and then throw away the excess when baby couldnt finish?
Was wiping lyn's neck one day, and it was smelly and dirty, with a thick glob of sticky stuff btwn the folds of her neck, and she ALREADY had her bath! The sticky stuff(milk n dead skin cells, I think) eventually gave her a fungal infection, which had to be seen to by a PD which costs us $112.
Use her fingers to brush the french bean(dinner) that was stuck to the covering lid of the plate, back to the plate. Yucks. Also duno those fingers clean or not. Made a remark when I saw her did that, and she replied that she had oreadi washed her hands. "Auntie not so dirty one you know, I washed my hands just now liao. How can handle food with dirty hands?" Yeah rite.
I was so happy the day she left.
