cm.. if u can 想通 is good lor... no point气死自己 & hb also duno wat u angry abt! & pls hor, dun ever say 'D' la.. got two bundles of joy @ home shd b v contented liao.. watever we do must tink on their behalf 1st... everything must忍忍忍 k =)
jus to share w u tis incident & we really hv to treasure ourselves & family... my ex-colleague in her mid 30s sms me early nov said she was admitted hospital due sudden headache & vomit non-stop, & within 2 days found a 4x4cm tumor in her brain gotta go for immediate ops. i visited her @ icu on 2nd day after her op, she's still unconscious then.. they found water in her brain so gotta do 2nd op to insert a tube to drain water out... aft 2nd op, i visited her as well..tis time she's awake but v weak cant talk & dun really recognise ppl... the last time i visited her was last saturday aft i sent lance for kidney ultrasound/uti review (everything was fine).. she's has gone for 3rd op on 4/12 as the tubing can oni last 10days, they cant possibly keep changing the tubing so fm wat i knw, they insert a tube inside & drain the water thru her body instead.. when i visited her at the ward.. she's still v weak, tis time they shaved her hair (tis bothers her initially when she sms me abt going thru the op, cos she said she feel sad they shaving her hair, but 1st two op they just cut small portion).. i feel so sad seeing her condition on saturday cos she's soooo skinny & the nurse feeding her milk.. i talked to her she's too weak to response.. wat's saddened me was she has got two boys, one going P4 and one going P1 nxt year... both now under her mum's care... both her parents retired & staying w her, she's the sole bread winner of the house.. also she was divorced 2yrs back.. oni ting glad is during the 3x of my visits, her ex-hb was there to accompany her.. can nvr imagine a healthy & active person like her b so sick.. i really pray she'll recuperate fast...