Chatty,
Haha.. hubby is okay with the idea, coz he also wants his kids to at least has the warmth of a home that he himself didnt get to enjoy, he was sent to Sg for studies when he was only 9.. that forms his independence character..
Considering what I am earning is also not a big participant in our household income (i get to keep my own savings), so if i dun work, we wont starve, but if he becomes a sahd, then we will starve kekekekeke... He has too much passion in his work and studies.. it is impossible for him to be a sahd..
Maybe next time when my kids grow up, i can go back to work.. when they dun really need my companionship at home..
Anyway, I do feel self-contented when i got my promotion, bonuses/salary hikes (which means my hardwork is recognised by ppl), but it is a difficult choice between giving up career for family.. it's just human nature for ladies to prioritise on the family rather than career, at least for me..
Btw, plan is just a plan (subject to changes) haha
You have reached a certain level in your career, having working for so long, i think if you are to give up, it is really not easy for you.. after all the hardwork..
But you've got your mum to help look after James, so it is okay rite? My MIL has to come back to her own home mah.. which is understandable
