Update on EJ
I spoke to his Tr last fri n found out something interesting about EJ. Recently, he has been acting up. When he did a naughty act, his friend/s will want to tell Tr n he can't seem to accept that! He will start crying n try to don't let his friends tell Tr. Then he display "meltdown" behaviour - just cry n inconsolable n refused to talk to anyone!! So apprently, he is more concerned about his friends telling, then the actual punishment. Then when questioned, he said because he is scared the Tr will punish him, that's why he doesn't want his friends to tell.
Then, recently his cc has a lot of changes. Some kids left.. Then a pair of K1 twins, they joined at K1, then switch to nursery cos they not doing well, then just switch back to K1.. Then another boy also same, but eventually left the cc because he has learning disability. Then, the school has a new Chinese Tr n they keep switching her backnforth to teach k1,2 and nursery, cos they can't decide which level she should take!!
And the problem is, their school is v small. EJ nursery class technically has 7 students only. But they will combine with the pre-nursery class sometimes and also in the afternoon, when those on halfdays go home. So I guess to EJ, he can't really understand why he cannot switch class/school when other kids can. Then because school/class so small, any in and out is very obvious n impactful.
Anyway, we just keep psycho him, tell him n advise him. Then his Tr said, she hardly punish him, cos can use reasoning with him. And that she has been giving him more stuff to do (as compared to other kids) because she sees that he is more advanced. So conclusion now is, we monitor. But I could feel that EJ seems better, after he saw that I went to speak to his Tr.
Sorry for long post.