janey,
You have to weigh the pros and cons lor. The advance notice gives you the time to: (1) decide whether to keep the bb; (2) if you want to keep the bb, then you have some time to make preparations (might want to go for classes, do research, make caretaker arrangements).
But the flip side of the coin is that a positive test could cause a lot of stress and unhappiness as you go through your pregnancy, and worse still, the stress could be totally UNNECESSARY (have heard of a few cases where the test results came out not so good, mummies spend their pregnancy crying and crying, and then bb comes out perfectly healthy).
You have to weigh the pros and cons lor. The advance notice gives you the time to: (1) decide whether to keep the bb; (2) if you want to keep the bb, then you have some time to make preparations (might want to go for classes, do research, make caretaker arrangements).
But the flip side of the coin is that a positive test could cause a lot of stress and unhappiness as you go through your pregnancy, and worse still, the stress could be totally UNNECESSARY (have heard of a few cases where the test results came out not so good, mummies spend their pregnancy crying and crying, and then bb comes out perfectly healthy).