Hi Ladies,
Just managed to log in now... haiyo, this time round confinement really not easy leh.... So damn hot n humid and smelly.... just now cannot tahan, instead of wiping myself, I jump under the shower head to have a quick rinise, now feel better.
Bfing is really not an easy task, even I got tired of it. I'm basically deprive of sleep
Wait up almost every 2 - 3 hrly to latch her on, cannot use lying down position cos my no. 2 on the same bed as me, so no place for no.3... bobian, got to carry her and latch her on while keeping shaking my head to keep myself awake....
Think most ppl can't escape not crying during confinement period.... I just cried this afternoon, felt so stressed up with my no.1 and so tired, since I've already been deprived of sleep for almost 3 days....
Dey,
Don't worry too much regarding ur ss. the ss will not increase if there's no sudden spurt like pumping every hrly instead of 3 hrly..... bb will go through a growth spurt think at 3rd wks or so, this is when they will request to nurse almost hrly hence u got to fulfill that, so that ur breast will produce more ss for them. The ss didn't increase cos ur brain did not receive a signal saying that the production is unable to meet the demand, hence it's always remain at 80ml, cos that's wat ur bb need at this moment. Hope I've answered your queries.
QSG,
Dr Sim did mentioned to me that the Locia will be "Cleaned" after abt 6 weeks, hence she scheduled me to see her again in 6 weeks time for the PAP Smear.
Jackie,
Don't worry lah, during bfing period, mayb will be 1 big n 1 small, but if we stopped bfing, the nei nei will regain the usual size lor... Try to latch ur bb on the side that he hates.... hahaha... very jik ark hor, but no choice lah... else u pump out that side lor
Kimi,
U very heng, got such a good bb....
Och,
Oh, when I read ur birth story, I was like huh?! NUH really so inexperience with child birth, and they sound so unprofessional.... anyway, it's over now... what u need now is to stay strong, remember we will always be here for you.
During my delivery, my gynae also very busy.... she was at RH delivering another bb, so when I was having the urge to push (suddenly), the whole labour ward when into chaos, cos they haven't prepare anything yet for my bb's arrival plus my gynae not around.... then I was given the gas n I think suddenly there's so many nurses around me, cos 1 got to give me gas, the other got to stop me from pushing while the rest preparing those labour stuffs.... Everything just happen so suddenly.
Calynn,
Don't feel sad abt not able to give bm, as long as u had tried ur best, no one is to be blame.... my no.1 also on formula, so no worry, formula bb also will grow up strong n healthy. Try again for no.2 lor...
afcai,
Issit true? just bath with the herbs n it's ok to shower everyday?! That's a good news man...hmm... see if I can talk to my mum over this....haha... really cannot tahan, hot, smelly and sticky.... then bb also feel sticky too...yucks!