Hi, everyone.
So exciting to read about the new births, and your experience after birth taking care of baby.
Had a freak "accident" yesterday. Was washing my bottom and accidentally scratched my stitches. Ouch! Hurts, and bled a little. So painful when I applied the alcohol. The rest of the day, I lay down except for feeding and bathing baby.
Wei Kuan,
I don't know what's the statistics for episiotomy for 2nd-time mum. My friend gave birth to her 3rd boy 5 months ago. They were so cool ('cos 3rd one already lah) and delayed going to hospital... then the unthinkable happened... the baby was delivered in the car! According to my friend, hurt like mad and she had secondary tear. Not very sure what secondary tear is, but seems like it's not just superficial tear lor... So I think it's really case-by-case bah... Probably depends on size of baby too? Anyway, don't think too much about it now. If want to, can discuss with gynae. On the day itself, will be concentrating on pushing that need for episiotomy may become not so important. Hee... so leave it to the gynae to decide on the spot lor... Actually, gynaes also can't predict if need episiotomy. They're oonly able to make intelligent guesses... ;-p
Aspialle,
Don't know if the drip is compulsaory leh... When I had my 1st baby, was having Strep B, so had the drip for antibiotics, I think. Oh, actually I think my gynae likes drips... Haha! What a way to put it... ;-) 'Cos she gave me drip to stabilise (I think it's more to bring on) the contractions. Thus, I think if in future there's No. 3, I'll be put on the drip again.
Oh, when the gynae broke the water bag, it's like bursting balloon like that. Not painful, just uncomfortable... something like cervix check like that. I cried more because I was scared lor... Think few mothers are as needle ad pain-phobia as me, so you should be fine...
OK, baby crying liao... Feeding time... Chat with you again...