Wendy,
Just do things that you are comfortable with and dun stress yourself.
gemini, freshposion77,
As compared to my binding which was done last year, this year I'm more relaxed. Last year, I wore the binder to sleep every nite and took out only the next morning. There's only 1 time which I didn't cos my skin was itchy. For this round, I only wore the binder to sleep on the 1st session. Starting from 2nd session onwards, I don't cos I don't want to risk the skin. I remove the binder at around 7pm and apply desitin to the skin, and let the skin rest and "breathe" cos I'm doing for 18 sessions. Once you feel itchy and you can't tahan, it's better to remove for the skin to rest. You may like to note the binder needs to stay for at least 8 hrs to see the effect. Of cos, if you can tahan longer, the slimmer the tummy will be lah.
freshposion77,
Did you try the fixed schedule pumping? It will be much easier if you can pump at fixed time too. So now dun pump at nite, got more rest right?
I'm getting the jabs at GP. Not signing any package cos the price isn't much different. I'm getting 5 in 1 for my gal cos my GP don't recommend 6 in 1. Perhaps you have missed out my posting earlier on 6 in 1. For my 1st gal, I gave her 6 in 1 until the last dose, my GP told me he would stop and gave 5 in 1 instead cos there were cases of unknown infant death after taking the 6 in 1. And 6 in 1 is quite a new jab, though MOH din stop it, my GP stopped giving. Usually PD charge more ex for 6 in 1 and 5 in 1 jabs and they always encourage mothers to sign package, so that they won't lose customers.
For full mth celebration, it is not a must lah. It is only a celebration and a chance to "announce" to relatives and friends of the additional member in the family. You can't forgo the whole thing (makan and cake) also if you don't want. Depends on your religion, some will pray to their ancestors and god, some will bring the bb to the church etc.
Wei Kuan,
Since you are giving FM, you must wash baby tongue. If not, the milk residue will stay at the tongue, which you will have a hard time to remove next time. It is also unhygenic for bb. Use wet handkerchief to rub against the tongue at least twice a day (once in morning and once at nite). Rub = gentle rub.
As for mittens, it is time for you to remove but remember to cut the finger nails frequently to ensure bb don't scratch herself.
For me, I remove once bb turns full mth. Grace at Parentcraft advise not more than 6 weeks.
crystallized,
Once my CL leaves, I will bring the 2 kids to my mum's place everyday. Hb will drive us there in the morning and fetch us after work lor. Very tiring one... cos need to travel here and there, and morning will be very rush for me. Need to pump lah... bath lah... change and wipe the 2 kids...
Moonbaby,
Your boy "beat" Vivian's Rhys hahaha... Champion liao
Jo,
1) Usually 8th week. Some ppl are daring to try after 4th week. I don't know how painful it is (cos I dun feel pain at all for the 1st time). Cos I heard a lot of ppl saying the 1st intercourse is very very painful. So you go to make sure you are very wet first. And heard that BF makes the vagina very dry.
2) Think if remember correctly, at least 6 mths. But you can do those light light one after 2 mths.
3) There is no scientic reason for this. Though some said if you are bfing, dun dye cos scare the chemicals will go to the BM. So, up to you.
I'm also getting that Prima Deli cake (8kg) for my lab colleagues to share, on top of that 3 big jellies of Pooh, Carebear and Strawberry Shortcake design. I got the same cake (10kg) for my 1st gal last year for lab colleagues too. And I'm giving out full mth package from Choz for relatives, friends and other dept colleagues.