romona
Active Member
Mommies,
How do you help your kids deal with anger/frustration behaviour?
Examples:-
1. Awake from leaked pullups which wet his pant, he will run over looking so upset and keeps shouting "my pants is wet, can you help me?" even thou' he has no problem changing by himself in normal times. I tried to speak softly and asking him calm down n take out his wet pants first but he just keep shouting.
2. We are busy, he wants a drink and asking his daddy to pour him a cup of water which he nromally do it himself. If I pour for him instead of daddy do it, he will gets so upset and insists my hubby to do it by pouring away the cup of water.
3. My hubby wakes Ian up for school and Ian refused to wake up, so my hubby told him he going to be late for work, and since he is not waking up, he will go to work first and Ian will gets very upset and starts to cling on my hubby and keeps saiding "No, I don't want daddy to go to work". So my hubby tell Ian to wash up and go with him now. Instead of quiet down and do it, he wasted almost 10mintues by repeating again "No I do not want daddy to go to work" without getting anything done.
These are his reaction to frustration/anger and I have no idea how to handle it. Initially we will try to talk nicely with him but he just like a parrot, keeps repeats until he wants what he wants. My hubby and I starts to get sick of such attitudes.
Any advice is appreciated. thanks.
How do you help your kids deal with anger/frustration behaviour?
Examples:-
1. Awake from leaked pullups which wet his pant, he will run over looking so upset and keeps shouting "my pants is wet, can you help me?" even thou' he has no problem changing by himself in normal times. I tried to speak softly and asking him calm down n take out his wet pants first but he just keep shouting.
2. We are busy, he wants a drink and asking his daddy to pour him a cup of water which he nromally do it himself. If I pour for him instead of daddy do it, he will gets so upset and insists my hubby to do it by pouring away the cup of water.
3. My hubby wakes Ian up for school and Ian refused to wake up, so my hubby told him he going to be late for work, and since he is not waking up, he will go to work first and Ian will gets very upset and starts to cling on my hubby and keeps saiding "No, I don't want daddy to go to work". So my hubby tell Ian to wash up and go with him now. Instead of quiet down and do it, he wasted almost 10mintues by repeating again "No I do not want daddy to go to work" without getting anything done.
These are his reaction to frustration/anger and I have no idea how to handle it. Initially we will try to talk nicely with him but he just like a parrot, keeps repeats until he wants what he wants. My hubby and I starts to get sick of such attitudes.
Any advice is appreciated. thanks.