Morning ladies, today so many posts, got a hard time reading all of them so early!
<font color="aa00aa">Sally</font>
Ok, Ill send u an invite later in the day. =)
<font color="0000ff">Adora</font>
U noe so funny, infact today I still wanna msn u to ask u on Rs progress. Oh dear, still no improvement at all. But I still feel insert & stools softener are not helping much in the long term, worst is R may be so dependent of them tat he will lose his initiaty to pass motions. Muscles there will get loose too, not healthy in long run. Think if you really wana cure the Root, then perhaps u shd go for those Tummy Massage at Yu Guo.
Hey me too! Eversince no specs to conceal my dark circles, I have to diligently apply makeup everyday. Once I was lazy to apply, my colleagues will start asking me Am I sick?? Why your eyes like this, not enuff sleep?? blah blah. =(
<font color="ff6000">LV</font>
Ya I totally agreed with u on the driving on the road. My hb is good example liao. Usually wont say such hokkien stuffs, but come to driving, wow really cant stand & I always gotta remind him theres a little parrot sitting right behind him. Then when some guy like wanna race with him, hell go race with him, accelerate so fast. I find it so childish! For me, I usually put safety first whenever Ash is with me. Driving much slowly, so I usually good temper with the drivers when shes aro. *phew*
Normally when the devil comes out from me is usually driver cut my lane so close blah blah, honk me when I was driving slower than others. Patience is running low when U are in mad rush & some1 infront is driving snail slow with no cars infront. I think this is inevitable tat ull slash some vulgarities out during tat split moment. But I must say Mans vulgarities in car definitely much much worse than woman. Woman no matter wat is still less crude than Man.
<font color="119911">Caymom</font>
Talking abt DIL .. I think Im the worst DIL here
, never really learn to appreciate my MIL.
MIL treats me pretty nice but yet at the bottom of my heart Im still feeling unbalanced abt staying with her till the rest of my life.
Anw I think my MIL doesnt really like me as before liao, she has stopped buying birthday pressie for me & so am I.. Sighs. Lately I did something which Im pretty happy abt & tot we may actually improve our r/s abit. She saw the way I made card to my frens son & She kinda liked it & to my surprise, she asked me to help her do 1 for her Fren at Melbourne. I was really stressed cos u noe lar, my MIL is quite an artistic person too. So I burnt midnite oil to squeeze my brain juice to think of something nice for her. Luckily, I managed to make something pretty nice, & then I kept asking my hb for affirmation whether nice or not. He told me the card was nicely made & I was so relieved. I put on the table & next morning, she praised me so much that I really felt so paisay & yet sooo happy. 1st time praise me Ok. Haha. I think this is a good kickstart of our r/s cos somehow we are talking more again. I gotta admit Im a lazy person in term of keeping the house neat & doing the household chores. I think my Hb & MIL kinda give up on me already. & worst I also dun make efforts to help my MIL in her chores. Damn bad rite?
So I m thinking maybe I just improve on such stuffs, ie she asked me to do something for her which I can do it, Ill try to give her my best. Then I think whenever I got my comm, I shd try to buy something for her, try to make her happy & really must make an effort to improve our r/s. Else I feel Im such an unhappy person deep down due to this & that, not good in long run.
<font color="ff0000">Bbrooster</font>
Wat a poor gal!! Shes definitely over-stimulated liao. Poor gal, so young already deprive of good rest. I really pity her & really hope the parents can wake up fast & stop torturing the kid with so many activities. Over stimulation will not only make her deprive of rest, will also affect her nite sleep & decision making next time when she grows up. Best is start slow, slowly see which activity she enjoys most & slowly exploit her potential from there.
<font color="0000ff">D D D</font>
Talking abt this D word, quite scary, but truly this comes to my mind last time when Ash was still quite young. I guess I was very possessive abt my own daughter & always paranoid my gal will be closed to my Mil, & also other issues related to house & MIL. Again MIL came into the picture when D occurred into my mind. How sad it was to D becos of family & not becos u no longer luv your hb. I became so down tat I felt like ending my marriage, simply wanted to bring my gal to my Mums house to stay forever. That time even wanna go to marriage counselor liao. Luckily my Hb able to say very motivating words to motivate me & bring me back to life again & let me see some light in our marriage. Things improved & I was very happy. However now my HB in this current job, very stressed with sales quota, again our marriage like not so good again & of cos my hormones siao siao again, start to feel HB not loving me much again. Sometimes I feel I shd just give my head a big knock to wake me up from such negative tots & learn to cherish my HB more. =( It has been a long time since I give him a pat on his cheeks liao, think I shd do it tonite to tell him Ill luv him forever, cannot be always so Da Nu Ren & waiting for him to initiate.
Note : I always feel Erlisa & her hb are a very romantic pair =) Good role couple for all of us here!
<font color="ff0000">Sports</font>
I think my gal wont have fair fair skin as she grows cos shes going to do a lot of sports cos her daddy luv sports so much.
Anw she also dun born with v fair skin, so is I think I still can take it.
Daddy already wants her to swim every Sunday, so how to maintain fairness? Lazy Mum sometimes forgot to apply sunscreen lotion for her. Gee! Anw I must really be diligent to apply for her whenever she swim, good complexion is very important for a gal I must say. Now I start to wash her face with cleanser daily at nite , hoping can cultivate her good hygiene & proper care in skincare.
I feel that Sports is very important for our kids. It helps on the motorskills, teamwork, leadership, sportsmanship & character building. Actually I always envy people tat like jogging as a hobby, cos this builds perseverance in a persons character. & this character can help greatly in this persons life a lot. I may want my gal to join Aikko in the CC next time too, this can help to build up self-defense. However of cos last thing I want is my gal getting bullied in school & of cos last thing I want is she having a cat fight with her mates lar.
Same as LV, think by 4 YO, my Hb will enroll her in Swimming. Feel that learning swimming is compulsory cos this is a basic survival skill. As for other stuffs like Golf & Music appreciation, itll have to depend on our finance at tat point of time. If we can afford, wud luv to send her to Piano class.
