Beanbox, welcome!
Dun despair,i read somewhere milk supply is established only ard 6 weeks,u can still do something abt it... as Sgmom says, u will hv to latch bb on or express more often. It will come eventually.
One thing is, rem to eat well and sleep well. I had the prob intially cos i was not eating and sleeping well, and plus unable to latch bb on.. i was frustrated and my milk ss was close to nil even when i express. After 1st mth, i started to eat and sleep better, ss improved. (tho bb still does not latch on) So dun give up. Jia you!!
And ignore wat visitors say.. u work out the best way to feed yr bb. Even if eventually u decide to feed FM, its ok. last wk i was also feeling so guilty supplementing my gal w FM - all ard me, my frens were BFg totally their babies. But i think if i hv tried my best for my bb, i will not bother wat the relatives and frens say. BB seems ok with FM too! and so many BB grow up strong and healthy w FM.
I just started to feed my gal with abit of water. like 20-40ml a day, adding a drop or two of Infacol to get rid of wind.
Tried to use cloth to "scrub" away the milk stain on BB tougue too.. not much success, esp the inner part. i hope someone has the solution and share it with us too!