krazy,
the power of cane veri strong...even just count 1,2 stop liao. but do bear to hit it down with force. I ever tried using hand to beat paige but always hold back the force part, so it's not so painful for her.
do you just hit once with cane or a few times?
sweatcorn,
ya, sound veri poor thing but it works for k. but after u hit k with a cane, doesn't he cry even longer? then cane again to ask him to stop crying?
septvirgo,
my gal also like tat, tell her to bath she also take her sweet time, still tell me, I dun wan to bath, everyday she'll go against wat we say. have to bribe her to get her to do things...which I find can't be bribing her forever.
then when bathing, paige will play inside too, tell me I wan bubble, I wan tis, I wan tat...then getting her out from shower is another thing, she'll take her sweet time again.
san,
tell u a joke, a few mths ago (just last yr), paige saw a bunch of cane tied up together...I tink she tot it's some kind of 'play stick' with a umbrella hook at the end & tell me, mummy I wan tis. I looked & tell her, u sure u wan tis???
then the person beside me laugh. I told paige, tis is not for playing, it's for mummy & papa to use to beat u when you're naughty. Beat liao, veri painful one. Then she quickly said, I dun wan.
D run to 'jiu bin' when u cane her...like tat hard for her to understand y she wrong coz she got others to back her up, sayang. does her teacher ever ask u about her cane marks? my lady boss kanna asked by the principal regarding her son's cane marks...it's not my lady boss cane but her mother.
twinklets,
hanger?? hanger more painful leh, wire or plastic? I tink cane not as painful as hanger.
ya ya, kids always tink of excuse to lighten their fault, Ashley clever, knows by saying nai nai also break the bowl so tat if nai nai dun get beaten for tat, she also wouldnt get beaten too...paige too, always find excuse or point the blame to didi.
Meow,
D climb coz he boy but my gal climbs more then my boy, worse chio & teach didi to go higher & more dangerous areas...catching 1 is hard liao, catching 2 siong...scold & scold, warn & warn but still climb. fall down many times but still climb.
poohy,
at least S is quite a good boy. ya, I same with u, considering the cane threat but also cannot bring myself to. still tinking should I start the cane threat or other pushiment? I have a friend who uses 'face-the-wall' treatment, when ever her gals naughty, she make both of them face the wall until they know they're wrong then come back.
tsp,
ya, hard to discipline kids when staying together with mil, sure run to them & our kids can't really learn wat went wrong coz wat's in their mind at tat point of time is, papa/mummy bad, beat me, popo gd, sayang me.