<font color="0000ff">Terrible two .. </font>
So many months to go .. dunno how to survive during this period leh. My Ashley also dun wanna sleep at times. Even wanna sleep, also want me to pat infront of the TV. gosh she's really a TV freak. Sleepy liao also wanna face the TV. Also dunno how.
As for beating/slapping, I dun think is right to slap face lor. I think is really hurting when some1 slaps ur face. Somemore is a child. I think beat the butts & hand is still all right, but not on the face.
Nowadays I will still try to use distraction & reasoning in disclipining her. Ehh cos I noe that the hard approach dun work for her, cos I've seen in my Mum's case. Raise voice until wanna die liao, used the cane also not scare 1. So i think in order not to make my voice coarse & my pressure rise, I have to 'good lak" abit, use soft approach more often. So sometimes it still work for us. But when she really damn bad temper liao, we'll just let her cry out loud. Carry her to playmat & let her cry until mad. Then end of it, must tell her to apologize to us. & again we'll tell her why we dun let her this & that. So far still ok lor. & we also practise "1 last time, OK?" This really work well so far, especially when she wants to eat something. Think constantly practise that, they'll know & understand, & we wont lose frustration too many times.
Now I'm trying to wean off pacifier during normal hours. Cos she's so addicted to it. Yesterday let her cry until mad, then I told her suck tutu shame shame, so I told her sleeping time then give her. So far she understands, I hope today with my Mum she also can be liked tat. Anw, crossing my fingers now.