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Mine was about 1.6k, cos I did it in the clinicHow much does d & c usually cost?
Mine was about 1.6k, cos I did it in the clinicHow much does d & c usually cost?
Ya suppose to be today i call and postpone too. Waiting kkh to give me another date. Estimate bill was 4k+My bill is 4.3k+ at mt e novena. B4 medisave deduction. Try to seek second opinion. And if not ready. You can wait awhile and be abit emotionally stable first. I waited a week before i did the procedure yest.
Oh actually I cooked with seeds cos I felt very cold. Only felt heaty after 2 weeks! Then i stopped. Also took daily chicken essence during the period, like real confinement. I think if you feel heaty then should adjust.
I didnt blow fan but stayed in aircon room at 26 degc. Wore socks and bedroom slippers too.
Felt chilled by the wind when I went out too so maybe I'm the more cold sort.
If not ready, just postpone. But dont drag too long ok? It wont do our body any good. Kkh also so exp ah?? I thot is becos i do at mt e novena that is why so exp.Ya suppose to be today i call and postpone too. Waiting kkh to give me another date. Estimate bill was 4k+
My bill is 4.3k+ at mt e novena. B4 medisave deduction. Try to seek second opinion. And if not ready. You can wait awhile and be abit emotionally stable first. I waited a week before i did the procedure yest.
Thank you dear, visited my gynae today and did a scan. Confirm nothing in Sac. Arranging for D&c. Sad & scare.
Hugs. Was thinking to postpone my d&c and request for another ultrasound next week to double confirm.
Mine was about 1.6k, cos I did it in the clinic
Big hugs. I am feeling better as the day passed. Although not a single day passed without thinking of my baby, but i know i am gradually growing stronger. I still cry everyday. It is hard not to think about my poor baby. Grieve is normal babe. Take your time. We will never forget this incident but we cannot let this take over our life.Hi babe, how are u? I am still dealing with grieve. Upset, disappointed & hopless.
Went for 2nd scan after mc. Lining not good. Not clear yet. Prescribed antibiotics. Haiz.
Tcm is next sat.
If not ready, just postpone. But dont drag too long ok? It wont do our body any good. Kkh also so exp ah?? I thot is becos i do at mt e novena that is why so exp.
Big hugs. I am feeling better as the day passed. Although not a single day passed without thinking of my baby, but i know i am gradually growing stronger. I still cry everyday. It is hard not to think about my poor baby. Grieve is normal babe. Take your time. We will never forget this incident but we cannot let this take over our life.
Not clear yet means there is still leftover tissue ah? Did the gynae say how to get rid of it? You wanna try dr wendy teo? She is my 2nd opinion gynae and i like her alot. Very comforting and assuring. She suggested d&c to me cos she feels that it will be a better form of closure to me. I feel ok today. Very crampy and bleed quite abit after the procedure. Went hm and slp early last night. Not much cramps today and mininal bleeding. Started my confinement tingkat too.
If not ready, just postpone. But dont drag too long ok? It wont do our body any good. Kkh also so exp ah?? I thot is becos i do at mt e novena that is why so exp.
Big hugs. I am feeling better as the day passed. Although not a single day passed without thinking of my baby, but i know i am gradually growing stronger. I still cry everyday. It is hard not to think about my poor baby. Grieve is normal babe. Take your time. We will never forget this incident but we cannot let this take over our life.
Not clear yet means there is still leftover tissue ah? Did the gynae say how to get rid of it? You wanna try dr wendy teo? She is my 2nd opinion gynae and i like her alot. Very comforting and assuring. She suggested d&c to me cos she feels that it will be a better form of closure to me. I feel ok today. Very crampy and bleed quite abit after the procedure. Went hm and slp early last night. Not much cramps today and mininal bleeding. Started my confinement tingkat too.
I ordered from natal essentials. Started from today. Today's lunch is not bad nt sure about dinner though. They also give longan red date tea. Which is enuf for me cos i also got drink water. Scared too heaty.You taking 2 weeks tingkat? Food nice? Which company tingkat you taking?
Yup book tue. My doc agreed to scan 1 more times b4 ops since i requested. Tmr going another gync for 2nd opinion thou. Thou i know chances are slim. My mum just wanna make sure really miscarriage b4 abort. Cause only 6 week +. I call double confirm private patient is 4k plus at kkh.
Woah. Really ah. I thot cos my gynae fees is exp plus do at mt e novena then also exp. Sigh. We all pay so much. Get nth but sadness. Insurance cannot claim. Really gek sim.Actually mt e novena is not the mst ex...i checked mt alvernia is slight mre ex though
Thanks. You can try dr wendy if you want to change gynae. I like her alot.Yes. There's still leftover tissue from the pregancy and thick lining so doc prescribe antibotics. next scan will be 4 weeks to check if the lining is better.
Ok. Thanks, i m looking to change another gynae whom i will feel more comfortable with.
I m glad u are doing ok. Do rest well and take good care.
Woah. Really ah. I thot cos my gynae fees is exp plus do at mt e novena then also exp. Sigh. We all pay so much. Get nth but sadness. Insurance cannot claim. Really gek sim.
Hi LovepuffHi, may i check which clinic and who is ur gynae? I thinking to change gynae. I had 2 losses with my gynae, its not his fault but it bring bad memories.
Hi DaledaleYup book tue. My doc agreed to scan 1 more times b4 ops since i requested. Tmr going another gync for 2nd opinion thou. Thou i know chances are slim. My mum just wanna make sure really miscarriage b4 abort. Cause only 6 week +. I call double confirm private patient is 4k plus at kkh.
Hugs. We need to see open. And stay positive. Cried first day and accept the fact and move on. Of cos i missed my baby but we need to let go and try again. Good luck babes.I had the same suitation as u. Scan on 15/4 and 21/4, nothing in sac. I took cyotec on 22/4, mc starts. Its very scary. Today went for scan, lining not good yet. Given Antibotics.
I m grieving and try to pick things up. Really upset and disappointed. Do stay strong, hugs.
Hi Daledale
I think 6 weeks is too early to confirm its not viable, unless you have started bleeding.
Suggest to wait a bit more.
Hi Lovepuff
My gynae is Dr Tham Kok Fun at gleneagles. Very nice doc, but he's not a high risk pg doc. So I am unlikely to go back to him if I'm pg unless its a stable one.
I am getting better physically. But still feeling very emo mentally. I have been hiding at home and refused to go out and meet friends or family. Sometimes when i am occupied with watching my drama, i feel guilty. Like how can i feel happy watching my drama when my baby has gone to heaven? When will all these feelings go away?
Yeah. The last thing i think of before going to sleep is my baby. My baby is also the first thing i think of when i wake up. I feel very tong ku. Why i cannot bring my baby to this world. I also have alot of hatred. Like why god want to give me sth, make me happy, give me hopes but shattered all my dreams and hopes. I feel upset when i see pregnant lady also. Pregnant friends still ok. But pregnant family members hurt me alot. It is a painful reminder of my loss.
Hopeful mum,Some of us here are with high risk Drs due to recurrent Mc. I had 4 Mc before having my gal. I'm with nuh high risk team and have selected dr Anita as my Gynae. Many here are seeing prof mahesh. I got to know abt nuh from this thread 3/4 years ago. And it really guided me to the right place. So I'm very thankful for all the ladies here.
Jiayou, ladies. Sometimes we just have to put ourselves first, so allow yourself to feel angry, sad.. or indulge in dramas or gifts. Talk to hub, friends who been there, or just us in the forum!
My 1st mc was w 2 days before mothers day. I also had a blissfully pg sil and bro who pretended nothing happened. They didn't even want to step to my house and waited downstairs when my parents visited, as if I would jinx them. They quietly celebrated mothers day without us when my heart was so broken. During my confinement, they disappeared from the face of earth. Needless to say, things were never the same again and they also pretended all was well and happy during my 2nd loss. Not even a simple message or visit.
But I also had a couple of close friends who cried when they knew, encouraged me and listened to my rants etc. They really helped a alot. Of course, there are also friends who say try again like its no big deal, cos they never had trouble falling and staying pg. But looking back, I think at least they cared to respond instead of avoiding me totally. Still I was depressed and sad as I struggled to get pg again. I counted every month anniversary and asked God why he took her from me.
For the 2nd mc, my hubby cried after he got the news from the doc on the falling hcg. At that moment, I felt united in our grief and the healing really started. Even if they look outwardly normal, they are hurting as they need to be strong for us. We need to find the strength in our loved ones and know that we are all in it together.
For now with the emotional pain being so raw, give yourself time. You deserve to do whatever it takes to feel better. And it will.
Dont blame ourselves. It wasnt our fault to begin with. Take it easy ladies. Stay positive and we need to let go the unhappiness.
To be honest I rather they don't come visit me just like aft my procedure my sis came to my house w her #1 and she pg with #2 u know that feeling is even more painful and some more need to entertain 1st b4 can go in room to rest of the day and will cry even more. Sometimes I would like just leave me alone I will be alright than ppl don't understand talk so much for what more hurting. Just like my sis is telling me no rush go c tcm n procedure her col told her is nth just go in sleep and go back 1 hour later close case. Her pregnancy smooth smooth how she understand by just listening to her col? And is her col don't care her beanie at all? Says till go easy saying her gynae at tmc all procedure only 1hr+ go in sleep n can go home already.Jiayou, ladies. Sometimes we just have to put ourselves first, so allow yourself to feel angry, sad.. or indulge in dramas or gifts. Talk to hub, friends who been there, or just us in the forum!
My 1st mc was w 2 days before mothers day. I also had a blissfully pg sil and bro who pretended nothing happened. They didn't even want to step to my house and waited downstairs when my parents visited, as if I would jinx them. They quietly celebrated mothers day without us when my heart was so broken. During my confinement, they disappeared from the face of earth. Needless to say, things were never the same again and they also pretended all was well and happy during my 2nd loss. Not even a simple message or visit.
But I also had a couple of close friends who cried when they knew, encouraged me and listened to my rants etc. They really helped a alot. Of course, there are also friends who say try again like its no big deal, cos they never had trouble falling and staying pg. But looking back, I think at least they cared to respond instead of avoiding me totally. Still I was depressed and sad as I struggled to get pg again. I counted every month anniversary and asked God why he took her from me.
For the 2nd mc, my hubby cried after he got the news from the doc on the falling hcg. At that moment, I felt united in our grief and the healing really started. Even if they look outwardly normal, they are hurting as they need to be strong for us. We need to find the strength in our loved ones and know that we are all in it together.
For now with the emotional pain being so raw, give yourself time. You deserve to do whatever it takes to feel better. And it will.
Hopeful mum,
Did you go to the recurrent clinic subsidized?
I went to prof private as I want to know asap. But now that there are issues, I prefer to go with nuh vs mt E due to the cost.
Do you know if I can just walk in to the recurrent clinic if im pg again w all my medical tests already done?
To be honest I rather they don't come visit me just like aft my procedure my sis came to my house w her #1 and she pg with #2 u know that feeling is even more painful and some more need to entertain 1st b4 can go in room to rest of the day and will cry even more. Sometimes I would like just leave me alone I will be alright than ppl don't understand talk so much for what more hurting. Just like my sis is telling me no rush go c tcm n procedure her col told her is nth just go in sleep and go back 1 hour later close case. Her pregnancy smooth smooth how she understand by just listening to her col? And is her col don't care her beanie at all? Says till go easy saying her gynae at tmc all procedure only 1hr+ go in sleep n can go home already.
My colleague say dha for 2nd trimester onwards... i order my royal jelly n supplement from iherb..quite cheap.My sis is in Australia now and I'm thinking of buying some supplements there... can any of u recommend what brand to buy for royal jelly and dha? Thank you so much... for our ttc
Blackmore conceivewell? Now guardian got promo
Anyone tried red raspberry leaf tea? According to western websites, good for uterine health but not advise to use once pregnant...
What supplements is good for conceiving?
Btw can we take chicken essence with cordyceps?
Oops sorry. I meant can drink now after mc? My friend gave me one box. But i am not sure if it is ok for me to drink it?My mum cooked chicken essence with cordyceps for my entire pregnancy. I supposed it's okay. She will cook one whole chicken and steam the "juice" or essence out of it. I heard it's good for helping with a strong heartbeat. I drink once a week or every 2 weeks. Cox cordyceps very ex and also worried too heaty. But first tri I drank weekly. Last tri I think cut down already. Can't recall been a few years back.
Anything bu ok to drink. If you wanna play safe, drink 7 days after ops. My mum say ops so avoid chicken & seafood for 1 week.Oops sorry. I meant can drink now after mc? My friend gave me one box. But i am not sure if it is ok for me to drink it?