LimChristy
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大家好,
我尝试怀孕已经4年了,都没成功,不知道大家有什么建议呢?还有没有人会到庙里还愿(红鸡蛋?)呢?能不能通知一下,什么方法都要试试。
谢谢你们
我尝试怀孕已经4年了,都没成功,不知道大家有什么建议呢?还有没有人会到庙里还愿(红鸡蛋?)呢?能不能通知一下,什么方法都要试试。
谢谢你们
1. 流产善后,有很多时候不走。常有噩梦是最明显之一。只有“忏悔”、“超度”。“行善积德”是填补不完美的地方。I understand that you mention 2 of the reasons that a couple cannot have children can be due to
1) the woman has an abortion before,
2) their life might only contain that 1 child together.
For reason 1, how can we tell if this is the case and can we remedy this issue?
For reason 2, is there anyway we can find
供参考。The story you quoted is it just for my reference or is that a hint? I am a bit confused by the example.
很好啊!人人都能这样,天下泰平。I am definitely regretful and am willing to perform the Chao du ceremony.
The post below yours mentioned‘水、陆法会’。But from the past threads it seems like I have missed the opportunity.
Is there any temple where I can get still get the Chao du ceremony performed?
Welcome. 能解答的,尽量便是。Please kindly advise.
Thank you once again for the kind guidance.
很好。I will have vegetarian on 22/11/2013.
很容易的。拜佛、忏悔。May I know what is 礼佛?
这简单嘛. You bought a first class air-ticket and I can afford to buy economic class on the same SIA A380 flight to L.A. Preferential treatment is different but our ultimate destination is L.A. 看明白意思了吧?I looked up the grand prayers details but do not understand.
There are also a few prices and I could not understand the difference in prices and which one I should take. I have wrote in to ask the enquiry page.hope I get their reply soon as I can only pay for the lower prices category yet I do not know if it is for what I want to do.
进去之后,人有没有不舒服,可以放心。有很多人有感应。不同人有不同反应。Teacher I have another question. There have occasions when I go into a temple, where there are Buddhas, I feel tingy feeling at my finger tips. Is there a reason for this?
Welcome to this thread.I am new to this thread ..
Everybody has similar same issue.been trying for one for nearly 4 years but to no avail. On e verge of giving up but still want to have at least 1..
Any religion welcome. You can remain as Christian. 欢迎参与讨论,没说其他宗教不行。do you have any email that i can email to? However i am a christian and i know that i am not supposed to do what the rest of the ladies are doing ..
别怪他们啦。My in-laws are hawker .. selling fish .. thus will always kill and cook for others to eat ... RS with them also not very good .. got conflicts thus seldom meet up with them.. tried but seem difficult ...
可以理解的。You are not the only one. 家家有本难念的经,清官难断家务事嘛。旁人只是能站中立。Both sides got their stories, so, can't side on either.RS with them also not very good .. got conflicts thus seldom meet up with them.. tried but seem difficult ...
灵性、灵体、鬼、等等,是玄学字眼。原来this is what we call 灵性...as the people around me do not have such experiences
个人的感应不同。有些特别敏感的。I wasn't able to know what causes this. The feeling was most strong when I visited 佛牙寺.
明白。There was no bad feelings but I always felt most peaceful and at home when around Buddhas. I will read up more on Buddhism and pray as well. Thank you teacher for the guidance.
老师讲的是墓碑不是牌位。墓碑is tombstone. 牌位is tablet.老师, thank you for your advice on how to pray to ancestors. I had a look at My ancestor's tablet is a red tablet with some words on it but not names or "福荫子孙"'.
不能随便请下来。The words on it just means something like the family 开枝散叶. I think I will take the passport photo of my mil down but not the ancestors tomb picture cos we pray to the tablet not the to the picture alone.
老师可没说过“praying to the picture makes the 往生者 difficult to 投胎”。So I should explain to my sister in law that praying to the picture makes the 往生者 difficult to 投胎?
看情况,只好剪一张与照片大小的红纸粘在照片了。When I take my mil's picture down, what should I say to my mil as I dun want to be rude or abrupt ?
1. 如果是拿下来了,就放在红包。Sorry 老师, an extension to the queries above, after the photo is taken down, where should I put it? Can I put it in the drawer? I heard from 光明山 before that I have to take my mil's photo to the temple during my mil death anniversary for the monks to chant before the photo can be burnt away. Is that correct?
光明山的人有这样说的话,可以参考他们的意见。I heard from 光明山 before that I have to take my mil's photo to the temple during my mil death anniversary for the monks to chant before the photo can be burnt away. Is that correct?
老师,请问若墓碑上刻生人的名字会造成什么后果呢?我的家婆的墓碑上也刻上了我先生,他的哥哥, 姐姐 和大嫂 的名字。他的二哥在1996中风,都还没痊愈。 大嫂在2011年因动心脏手术而去世了。 请问老师这些不好的事都跟墓碑上的名字有关系吗?谢谢。FAQs
i learnt that we cannot put upright photo of relatives u passed away.
Reply: 往生者头像/照片不建议也不能挂/摆在家。
The ancestors tomb picture frame has been on the praying alter since the beginning of time and we 上香 to the ancestors everyday.
Reply: 不建议在家拜照片。有立一个简单的神主排位,算是‘饮水思源’了。
After my mil passed away, My sister in law put my late mil's passport size photo upright on the ancestors tomb's photo frame which is also upright. Is this ok?
Reply: As answered above. Discuss with your sister-in-law or husband.
Additional: 若墓碑上刻生人的名字,最好去除!“福荫子孙”不能刻。老师不是开玩笑。
很多打造墓碑的人脑子进水了。一是想赚,二是不懂。要不然,就是家属没听进去。
我的妈呀!麻烦了!老师,请问若墓碑上刻生人的名字会造成什么后果呢?我的家婆的墓碑上也刻上了我先生,他的哥哥, 姐姐 和大嫂 的名字。他的二哥在1996中风,都还没痊愈。 大嫂在2011年因动心脏手术而去世了。
有关系!请问老师这些不好的事都跟墓碑上的名字有关系吗?谢谢。
我的妈呀!麻烦了!
你必须跟家人商量怎么处理。
1. 择日+请人换墓碑。(换墓碑要谨慎)
2. 择日+请人磨掉墓碑生人的名字。(旧墓碑保留,所有名字祛除)
3. 择日+请人磨掉墓碑生人(你丈夫)的名字。(旧墓碑保留,只有你丈夫的名字祛除)
不要择日的话,最起码就在清明节动工
老师, thank you for your reply. I will discuss with my family about it.
不懂您是不是称呼谁。Hi shifu, can i collect the egg and eat it now though my wedding is only end of next year? Abit worried n kiasu as my bf sperm analysis results r not v good.
忏悔(chan hui)- 佛家的忏悔呢,有的说是‘拜忏’、有的说‘念佛’、有的说‘放生’。普遍上,信众是口说出来。真正的含义,是不再犯。May I know what is the correct way to 忏悔? Thank you very much for your sharing!
吃弥月喜蛋是借助注生娘娘的恩典‘结缘’。花、苹果、橙、红枣、(不要梨、桃、这些水果)可以供奉注生娘娘。香烧完之后,水果带回家吃。Thanks toblerone! Do u know what must i do when i go and get the red eggs?
忏悔(chan hui)- 佛家的忏悔呢,有的说是‘拜忏’、有的说‘念佛’、有的说‘放生’。普遍上,信众是口说出来。真正的含义,是不再犯。
忏悔的方式法门不同。老师非常尊敬个法门的忏悔的方式。
老师教的‘忏悔’是念佛。天天念、天天忏(consistently reminding)。苦又吃力。效果自己体会。老师要是吹牛多讲没用的。
前世和今世造的业,利息都算在内了。不管是有心还是无意,因果如影随形逃不掉,需要花长时间老老实实地虔诚忏掉。
I do not do fortune telling but I can do fortune telling. 意思不同。Thanks for ur guidance toblerone! Do u do fortune telling just wondering
好的。謝謝老師
夫妇的八字(D.O.B. and T.O.B.)多少看得出。只能做出一个推断,夫妇俩有机会可得几个儿女。
Case Study 1
侯女士(she is 60 years old this year)年轻的时候,生了三个(女儿)。当时,她很想要追生第四胎男孩,不过终究怀孕不成。
侯女士八字出现耀眼女儿星,十年运势又未见儿子来报喜,而她丈夫的八字无子星(无儿子之命),所以,喜得三位千金。
If we were to look on the bright side of this couple, 家境状况不错。重要的是,快要抱外孙了。
Case Study 2
一对夫妇的八字统排只得儿子的命。Eventually, IVF successful and had a boy. 第二、第三次IVF始终都不成功。唯一可以解释的是,逆天理硬要怀女胎。不是上天不可怜,因为夫妇的福报只能有儿子。
However, if they were to have a daughter through a successful IVF, 恐怕宝宝将夭折,要不是身体缺陷等等。
Hi can I know if you are able to help me see if me and my husband fated to have how many children? We have been trying for more than a yr but still no news
夫妇没有孩子或者夫妻闹离婚,是肯定有原因。It is complex but fairly easy to explain.我和我丈夫试了一年多了,还是没有小孩。老师可以帮我们看下,指点我一下吗?谢谢老师
你的问题是‘清理’。这简单咯!hi 老师, I am new to this thread but i have been following your post. Need your advice on the following and hope u can enlighten me. Thank you.
1) how do we actually clean our home altar (观音菩萨)?do we need to choose a specific day or can we clean everyday?
2) do we need to buy something special to clean the altar?
3) how should we go about it?
Hope to hear from you soon. Thank you.
你的问题是‘清理’。这简单咯!
1. 每天保持清洁!佛桌的布、擦敬杯的布得要分开。
2. 香脚可以拿掉。
香炉、油灯、敬果的位置不宜移动。香炉一fix,就不尽量不要移动。在一些讲究门派,香炉的脚对向门。这个行,只有少数人会这样做。
初一、十五的前一晚,可以洗花瓶、有必要可以修剪万年青、也可以准备花。
花的颜色变,就要剪掉。水果开始有退色/异味,就要请下来,如果没有不妥,可以摆着不动。
Additional: 油灯觉得脏,可以初一、十五的前一晚清理。Dirty particles at the bottom can throw, the rest still can use.
晚上睡觉/无人在家怕油灯引起祸患,可以用扇子熄灭。有些人觉得‘白天点’,‘晚上送’也行!No harm.
有事可以请教 @judy_lsk . 她家安奉是站立观音,菩萨还去她坐客。她应该会跟你说,她家的香打卷了几次。呵呵...[/quote
Laoshi, thank you for your reply. When you say “敬果”, you are referring to the fruits that we prayed/offered on 1st/15th of the month and mustn't be removed? We always remove it on the next day or on the same day after praying. 香炉和油灯 also cannot be moved? I see my husband bring the 油灯 to the kitchen to wash, so it is ok or not? I would like to also ask whether we can clean the buddha statue? How often can we do so? Sorry for disturbing you again. Thank you once again.
没有硬性要拜了就马上吃。可以摆着不碰。When you say “敬果”, you are referring to the fruits that we prayed/offered on 1st/15th of the month and mustn't be removed?
香炉和油灯最好不要移动。香炉和油灯 also cannot be moved? I see my husband bring the 油灯 to the kitchen to wash, so it is ok or not?
菩萨/神像别去碰,尤其是开过光。I would like to also ask whether we can clean the buddha statue? How often can we do so? Sorry for disturbing you again. Thank you once again.
跨出第一步,一个月内吃四天!难得!我本生从11月开始每 Friday 吃素,
不行的。NATO.想为父母求平安. (But 没有去庙求,只是在心里求),这样有算吗?
你确定吗?不是马上,或者,一下子看到转变。Days ago, I came across this forum then read through all老师的 writing. 我要开始念经. 请老师给 guidance 念什么经, 何时念, 念几次.
月经1年来4次 is common problem. 还是能怀孕的。Background: 我和老公结婚了4年, 3年desire有孩子但没成功怀孕过.
去医生, healthy hubby but I diagnosed with diminishing ovarian reserve, high potential leading to early menopause, 月经1年来4次我可以大笑了. 这是1½年前的 diagnosis.
ok. 可以暂时松一口气。夫妻从来没有堕胎或流产.
没问题的。千千万万不能拉你老公信佛教。会闹到夫妻不和的。老公是天主教, 我信佛教.
真有心。我订了机票,这月底去 Singapore 观音堂佛祖庙向观音菩萨求子. 请问老师听过在这庙求子吗?
你在哪间寺庙求得,应验之后,最好回去原本那间。看明白意思了没?注生娘娘那边, 我担心还不了愿, 因为我住的国家没有拜注生娘娘的庙. 观音庙就多了.
ang-moh psychic 说的准,不奇怪。我曾经到 ang-moh psychic算命, 说我们将有 2 boys..and guess this the only thing kept me hopeful. (她连我名字可以说出来 ha ha felt so 灵 ah)
你确定吗?不是马上,或者,一下子看到转变。
很辛苦的,很多人give up.
拖到一年半载慢慢起变化。
月经1年来4次 is common problem. 还是能怀孕的。
ok. 可以暂时松一口气。
没问题的。千千万万不能拉你老公信佛教。会闹到夫妻不和的.
你在哪间寺庙求得,应验之后,最好回去原本那间。看明白意思了没?
ang-moh psychic 说的准,不奇怪。
psychic ability 分different "levels". Psychic就是华人说的通灵。不一定跟宗教有关系。
居然,她有说你有两个儿子,老师不会怀疑。
没有硬性要拜了就马上吃。可以摆着不碰。
为了避免水果坏掉,可以请下来用。
比如,你买了日本大橙,可以耐上十一/二天,那么你可以在第十天请下来吃。
Pineapple可以耐久一点,摆上十多天都不会坏。(所以买黄梨省钱省麻烦)
香炉和油灯最好不要移动。
一个月一、两次清理,那就没有办法。
你家中正在在煮荤食,就不要把油灯拿进厨房。
清理油灯simple. 有肮脏垫底的时候,就filter out. 油心换新的。Use back the same oil, no need to throw. (要不然浪费leh)
菩萨/神像别去碰,尤其是开过光。
一年整理一次就行了。农历十二月廿四
专用的新brush扫一扫脚部的dust。
用干净的新布,弄湿一点,觉得佛像哪里肮脏,轻轻按一按就好。千万不要抹掉红朱砂。
No need to soak the cloth dead wet, and clean it as if like wiping table.
可别一边清理,一边发牢骚,一边跟家人吵架。[/quote
好的,谢谢老师的指点。Thank you.