I have friends both male and female whom I know indulge in One-Nite-Stands. I thought I am open enough to accept the doings as their personal choice. But most of them are based overseas.
Recently, one of my local friends admitted to be a regular of One-Nite-Stand. I promised that is his choice and as a friend I won't treat him differently. His takes in those issues has nothing to do with our friendship.
But now, I find myself feeling really disgusted when I meet this friend face to face. I know I am in no position to judge him or to despise him. At least he has been truthful about it and trusted me enough to share his personal secret with me right?
I know this things take 2 to tango. Both parties are grown ups and known well what they are getting into. At the end of it no one owe anyone anything. Someone actually makes an analogy of an itch. You have an itch, u scratch it to ease it. Doesn't matter which hand is scratching it.
I really dun know if it is me.... Am I too old fashioned or there are ppl out there who would feel the same about this thing....
I really feel like an alien when everyone I talked to seems to ok with the idea and commented that I should not even feel disgusted at all!!!
Recently, one of my local friends admitted to be a regular of One-Nite-Stand. I promised that is his choice and as a friend I won't treat him differently. His takes in those issues has nothing to do with our friendship.
But now, I find myself feeling really disgusted when I meet this friend face to face. I know I am in no position to judge him or to despise him. At least he has been truthful about it and trusted me enough to share his personal secret with me right?
I know this things take 2 to tango. Both parties are grown ups and known well what they are getting into. At the end of it no one owe anyone anything. Someone actually makes an analogy of an itch. You have an itch, u scratch it to ease it. Doesn't matter which hand is scratching it.
I really dun know if it is me.... Am I too old fashioned or there are ppl out there who would feel the same about this thing....
I really feel like an alien when everyone I talked to seems to ok with the idea and commented that I should not even feel disgusted at all!!!