I am married with 2 children who are still very young. Yesterday I had a very bad quarrel with my husband. The reason is that he found that the bubble machine that we had bought for the children before is not good and he went to buy another one. When I returned home, he showed it to me and I just made a comment that "isn't it the same as the previous one?" Then he got angry and told me that you go and see whether is it the same. Then I did not say anything and proceed to have my shower. When I came out, he asked me again. Then I apologised saying that maybe I had mistaken. He did not accept my apologies and his face was still black. I am so pissed off and I told him that I was only making a small comment and he had to get so agitated over it. Then he just slammed his chair. I was so shocked, disheartened and sad of his actions that I just cried out. He did not do anything and after a few minutes, I went to apologise to him again and I said that I had already apologised to him and what more did he want me to do? He did not answer at first and when I asked him the 2nd time, he got up and said that I need not have to do anything. I was really sad and so loss as to what am I supposed to do the next step. Never mind, this is not the worst. The worst part is that we need to go to our in-law's place to fetch our childre. He didn't even want to take the lift together with me and also did not want to sit at the same table with me. Is it really my fault? I am just merely making a small comment and he had to treat me like that. I was thinking if he could not even take a small comment from me then is this marriage is worth to continue? I am trying very hard to maintain this marriage because I need to think for my children. But if communication breaks down, can I still go on with him?
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What is wrong with my comments? Can somebody tell me?
There is nobody which I can get comments/opionions with so I hope anybody who would be so kind as to tell me what I should do?