Support group - Miscarriages


Emily, I think it's better if you check with your insurance agent directly if you can claim for the operation.. If not, if your company has insurance, u can check if your company insurance covers it.. When my cousin had her cyst removed, she was covered by her company..

Today is the day for my Oscar test.. But no more BB.. Only heavier bleeding n cramps still.. Kind of weird.. Can't cry out too cos I'm being watched like a hawk.. Really suffocating...
 
No idea why am I still bleeding. Seriously cannot be bothered also. Lol. No idea why the left side hurts too. Now under control with painkillers. So just leave it. Cutting down on my painkiller dosage.

D&C is 7 days ago. Time flies.. BB is supposed be week 12. Haiz.. I miss my BB
 
Oisterbaby> what a coincidence, had my d&c 7 days ago too.. And my baby marks week 12 too.... If I didn't m/c;(

my friend giving birth soon, I think I can't visit her, it will bring bk sad memories!! Sometimes I hate myself for such selfish act....
 
my edd was mid Feb so I was supposed to enter 3rd tri like end of this mth? sigh. 4 mths on after the MC, only ttc once. think its negative. bbt dipped this morning, only dpo 8-9. sad..
 
Nvm.. Let's not have any negative thoughts. Though BB is not here anymore, we will always remember in our hearts.. Let's try again. Takes time but if its meant to be.. It will be..

Emily.. It's not selfish thoughts but you have to move on. I'm sure bb left not because they want to. But they have to cos then, they can come back again stronger and better.. We will grow with these experiences..
 
hi christine, previously u said to drink red raspberry tea? i also need vitex together with red raspberry. my luteal phase is too short, i think it is causing me to mc
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sigh my luteal phase always on the shorter side abt 12 days before my #1, how only 9 days after #1 is born.. but i am still breastfeeding.. already cut frequency a lot but still short luteal phase.
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on the other hand i dun want to wean him completely because i enjoy the cosiness w him.
 
whic brand of chicken essence is better as in, strong and more authentic? eu yan sang, brands or new moon? been having sinus since the mc. befor t i used ot have when i was teenager n it went away when i was ard 20.. sigh.
 
La_mer: did u let ur gynae know? I eventually stopped drinking it few months after dnc... After my Af was stable I stopped already.. And my 2nd mc I was a natural mc so I did not drink too plus my baby only measure 4.5weeks... I guess implAnt failed..

But last month my Af eventually jump to only 30 days cycle. After my tcm help me bu my body...

Recently want to start trying but my tcm say no... Cos I am having frequent hives n my flu bug still in me... Hais... Sian...

Still got can start trying then maybe jan or feb can have good news... But I think I need to hold back le...

Btw has anyone taken the cerxical cancer jab? I feel like taking but then at least 6 months cannot get preggy... Hais
 
Anyone feels super heaty after a d&c?I am down with sore throat n flu, a week after d&c.... After all the confinement food.... Is this abnormal?

How long does bleeding stop after d&c.... Spotting seems on & off for 2weeks...sigh! It can stop a day, continue spotting for few mins.... Stop again! When can this b over;(;( anyone experience that? Will the gynae prescribe special med?
 
Think spotting will last a while.. I also have spotting on and off.. Yest morning, there was a super big blood clot too.. Think it should be the cause of my cramps cos I was cramping badly the whole sat night..

Dun worry. U can call your gynae to ask to confirm.
 
Oisterbaby> I was thinking the bleeding is lasting for so long, our first af is gona be very messy! I keep asking when will this finally be over haiz?

Your hospitalization is over?
 
Hi Emily, my hospitalisation leave is over. Doc only give me 5 days cos I'm clearing annual leave..

Think first AF will be slightly heavier.. I'm only praying that no more cramps. The feeling is shit.. Haha
 
Hi oisterbb, the cramp feeling is like strings pulling in your abdomen and any sitting position seems to hurt.....

I didn't take the hospitalization leave as my colleagues don't know about it;)

First af seems so far away.... I just hope everything quickly returns to normal life..... N I can stop thinking about it....
 
The cramps is like contractions. Something squeezing the uterus and forcing out.. Haha. Next time if really give birth. Confirm I need epidural.. Mostly the pain quite concentrated on my lower left abdomen.. ESP on sat.. Feels like dying.

I know how u feel. But thinking about it doesn't help. I keep thinking if I did anything wrong or what.. Haiz. Cannot shake off the feeling that maybe it's me.. But we have to be strong and move on.. Go for a trip if possible.. Take a break before trying again..
 
U should have a check with a fertility specialist once u are ready;) at least we try to find a root cause and rectify the problem and seek the right treatment before trying again..... It's very tiring and frightening to go through the disappointment again.....
 
Am so comforted to know so many of you have also experienced the same thing I am going through. Going for evacuation tm... Feeling scared and sad at the same time. Dunno what to expect at all.
 
Thanks Emily, hope everything goes well. I hate all this waiting. Am wondering why I hvnt started bleeding yet even though I feel some pain.
 
Sometimes though the baby is dead, there is no bleeding. I have zero spotting throughout the whole 11 weeks but my baby has die before week 10. So no bleeding is ok. Just rest well after your surgery and dun move around too much. Stay in bed.. Hugs and be strong
 
I also have zero bleeding... I thought it was okay as long as no bleeding.... Sometimes it's better to bleed, it serves as a warning sign to see the gynae and maybe bedrest if it can be salvaged....

Oisterbb, how's your bleeding now? I going for the tests when my first af reports...
 
Those tests like sperm, hormone tests, blood tests to see what's happening.....

I can't wait to take those tests.... But there are cases where there's unexplained infertility.... Why don't u go for the tests, just to find out what went wrong. If it can't be explained, it may be bad luck.
 
I have not speak to my Gynae yet about taking any test.. I'll have to speak to him first.. But most probably I'll take a break first and wait for my house to come then try again
 
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Hi Emily am supposed to be 8 wks but baby stopped growing at 7. Anyway thankfully the op was not as bad as I imagined. Just having slight cramps and quite a bit of bleeding. Doc says if need to change pads more than 3x then need to go back to hospital. Now just worried about next pregnancy. If it has happened once, it can happen again. Not sure if there's an underlying problem. Anyway thank you all for your encouragement and support. It has made this experience easier to bear.
 
Visat, ask for test to find root prob. If can't find, then u should try again(when u r well) if this is first m/c. If the gynae knows your root prob, they can give u appropriate med to fix it before u try again.
 
Hey ladies...

I would like to ask if preggy is possible after ovulation period??? My Af seems to be late n my hub n I bd once after my ovulation period.

I'm pretty worried cos I'm having a dental appt. on tues for tooth extraction but afraid if I am really preggy.. I may affect my bb...

Had just taken my body temp. N it shows 37degrees... N I'm having throbbing headache now...

I'm still waiting until tues to see if my Af comes if not I guess I have to do a test before deciding if I should go for my dental appt...

I'm worried like mad now... Cos I am afraid same thing will happen again!!! Hais....
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I usually track it by seeing my discharge. And calculation to double confirm. Usually my hub do the calculation while I keep track of my discharge.
 
calculation may not be always accurate, but observing discharge should be quite accurate. I read that the next 12-24hrs after O is still fertile.
 
But we bd two days after my fertile period... Usually my hub calculate it actually matches with my discharge days... N my temperature did went up... But other than that nothing changes... I believe my Af is 32 to 33 days but somehow last month it's only 30 days.. So I tot it will stay that way.. Cos my Af is always on time. It had never been missed or late...
 
Emily: tested negative but Af still has not reported.. But I went on to extract my tooth... Now hopefully if it's negative I hope my Af comes fast. If its really positive. I hope the medi I'm taking now will not affect my bb.. Hais..
 

Again, again and again it happen to me...my baby heartbeat stop at week 10 AND I lost it the 3rd3rd3rd time!!!!!!!!

I tell myself NOT gg to drop any tears anymore to have my own baby just never going to happen on me!

I already done all my best AND am I going to stop having hopes of carrying my own baby from now onward

Lost my 1st marriage, reasons mostly based on me not able to conceive till ...went for 3 rounds of IVF, all failed in my 7 years marriage

soonafter 6 months of seperation with my ex hubby, he father a child outside

Now, found blessings in my 2nd marriage, 3 times pregnant over a 3 years... BUT all lost due to NO heartbeat or heartbear STOP at week 8 - 10 hoping, praying and asking to have my own baby was such a difficult task from God to me

Ended all in 3 miscarraiges

Again and again and again, i did all the check up , found nothing wrong with me and hubby health, sperm or egg issues

Its just that the fetus always stopped growing and heartbeat stopped

Doctor also cant find reason and just tell me to keep trying

WHAT should i do... give it all up totally!!!!!!!!!

I m STRUCK

Nevertheless pls cherish urs, as I m glad u r pregant again, I wish u all the best
 
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