Hub has been cheating on me for 2 yrs. Willing to forgive him so long he gave up the other woman. But claim that he can't dump the woman just like that .We have 3 kids 2 teenagers boy and 1 pri school gal. Have been talking to try to save the marriage but think I have reached the stage that this marriage is no longer workable. He wants to have both worlds and insist I just be his normal family. I can't take it when he go out to stay with he other woman. So I decided to chase him out. He asked for divorce. Although I no longer hope for this marriage but I don't want to divorce to let him and that woman get their ways and start a family .The woman is 10yrs younger . What should I do ?