Presents wise I prepared the following presents:
1) Fr jiejie to didi:
a) Stuffed toy doggy rattle to give at hospital --> she can use this rattle to play with him (already given her a pink bunny one at Christmas)
b) Boy's blanket to give Sebastian when he arrive home --> will teach her to help cover him
2) Fr didi to jiejie:
a) Bag of books --> to give her when she visit didi, hopefully keeps her occupied at the hospital
b) 'Bang On Door' soft toy --> to give her when didi comes home, so she can hug and lug around and bang on door where necessary
c) Rocking pony (grabbed @ Isetan sale) --> this is the grand finale, to present to her a few days after didi's home so she'll be further occupied/distracted
Also got a stash of new Hi-5 VCDs to bring out when necessay...
Hopefully this grand masterplan of mine works!
For Christmas we already got a doll that came with stroller, baby rocker and highchair. But only let her play with some of these items. Lately been training her how to 'rock rock' baby doll and that it is the same way she can carry didi. She's already agreed she wants to 'rock rock' didi and feed him milk even. I've also been telling her she can sing to didi which she currently does through my belly button or by pressing her lips against my belly. Colleague also taught me to get her involved like take diaper for him, pick out clothes (since she already so picky abt her own...), ask her to help throw diaper away, etc.
Still will nd to do reality chk when time comes and update you all when I have time -- to see what works and what doesnt'
She's really a lot of fun to spend time with nowadays and we hope Sebastian's arrival don't upset her world at all or too much. It's already good that she's adjusted wanting daddy to carry her more than me. In fact for the past 3M she wakes up and straight away asks 'Where's daddy'... But end of day, daddy's not the one around on maternity leave leh...
When I start leave next wk I'll upload some photos and maybe start a Facebook acc and share with you all