Mother In Law (MIL) Conflict... NEED ADVICE

problem_maid

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hi everyone.. I have a problem at home with my mother-in-law. I'm staying with my in-laws and we have a domestic helper. This is the 5th one who cannot stand her already. She always says she is the one disciplining the maid and none of us at home can comment on it.

But we can hear the issues and often she raises her voice though it is a small issue. Which helper can tahan? We don't want to keep changing maids as it's such a hassle. MIL says we don't respect her. As a DIL, all the more I cannot comment.

But it's terrible knowing that even if you change helper, the problem will occur once again.
 

problem_maid

New Member
MIL ever commented that I do not help in the chores. But when I wash my plate sometimes, she says, "don't help the maid". Then what is it about "i'm not contributing or helping??"
 

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