IVF/ICSI Support Group
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Noi, which day post transfer are you now? I think you should not read too much into symptoms as everyone is different. Sometimes u may not have any symptoms but it is bfp. For my first fresh cycle, I had af approaching like symptoms and it was bfp but ended as a mc. For my medicated FET where I conceived my son, I Oso had similar symptoms and spotting on D12. But for the current cycle where it was a bfn, I did not have much symptoms though I had very mild menses cramps though not as bad as the first two cycles where I had bfps.
karentey75
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Yo tickles, hi5! Some of my friends are jus simply soooo fertile. It's like dh touched them only they get pregnant... Zzzz. I have some friends who never STOPPED asking me when when when.... Recently I just decided to answer whoever that comes and ask me that we dnt wan kids anymore, just to shut their f**king mouths up!
Haro sue happy 2ww. Rest n relax ya. In my case I eat everything except those Liang food. But I no bfp lah... Hahaha
Howdy Noi, I got no symptoms at all!!!! But I no bfp lah! Wahahaha
Haro sue happy 2ww. Rest n relax ya. In my case I eat everything except those Liang food. But I no bfp lah... Hahaha
Howdy Noi, I got no symptoms at all!!!! But I no bfp lah! Wahahaha
karentey75
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LuvNhope I think lah, rest one cycle n do in feb better. Moreover jan KK closed for cleaning right? U rest one cycle n c if yr af got haywire or not lor... Hopefully not. Mine was haywire for the next month after failed fresh n then resume back to normal
karentey75
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Ya I used opk. Ovulated later and my cycle was prolonged from 28 to 31 days... Zzz
karentey75
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I totally apprehend what u mean dear! Same here!
karentey75
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Hi Sue, 2 bad I gave up my job for ttc thus I need to sacrifice certain things...like healing, I cant afford...too taxing on my pocket leh.if not I will go
karentey75
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Certainly hope so... U take it easy n dnt walk too much ya. Can walk around lah helps in blood circulation but moderately ok
karentey75
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Baby journey, did u try naturally? If yes, use hpt?
LuvNhope, rest one cycle first. My af went haywire as there wasn't proper flow, just spotting for 10 days. U must have full blood flow in order to do ivf or FET. I went to dr Zou to tiao my body and my af went back to normal before I started my FET.
I'll suggest u book FET in Feb and observe ur af in Jan. If it is haywire, request to see ur doc to get medication to regulate ur menses in Feb, then jus nice u will be able to do FET in Feb. In the meantime, you can tiao ur body and make sure ur body is in it's best state before u start the next cycle.
I'll suggest u book FET in Feb and observe ur af in Jan. If it is haywire, request to see ur doc to get medication to regulate ur menses in Feb, then jus nice u will be able to do FET in Feb. In the meantime, you can tiao ur body and make sure ur body is in it's best state before u start the next cycle.
HOPE,
I didnt tell my parents. I scare will make them worry. So I just keep quiet.
Baby smurf,
Mine is actually not my in laws who ask, is more of the relatives. My in laws dun really ask de. At least some peace for me.
Karen,
Ya.. Its like the hubby touch them they will get preggie type. Its irritating on how they boast on when they wanna try and then def can strike type. Arghh!!!
Luvnhope,
do it when you feel u are ready dun rush.
Btw, what healing are you ladies talking abt? Its for what purpose? The last time when I did my fresh and FET i went for womb massage. But I'm quite reluctant to go now cos quite ex and they quite pushy to ask people to sign package.
I didnt tell my parents. I scare will make them worry. So I just keep quiet.
Baby smurf,
Mine is actually not my in laws who ask, is more of the relatives. My in laws dun really ask de. At least some peace for me.
Karen,
Ya.. Its like the hubby touch them they will get preggie type. Its irritating on how they boast on when they wanna try and then def can strike type. Arghh!!!
Luvnhope,
do it when you feel u are ready dun rush.
Btw, what healing are you ladies talking abt? Its for what purpose? The last time when I did my fresh and FET i went for womb massage. But I'm quite reluctant to go now cos quite ex and they quite pushy to ask people to sign package.
Tickles, StarBabies n ladies who've recently (re)joined the forum, one of the ladies here has started a spreadsheet for everyone. Maybe u cld add ur details too if u want?
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/lv?hl=en_US&key=0Akn4rrFWhKUAdE51a1ZOc1RtQ21sR185Wm52a3daSmc&hl=en_US&f=true&noheader=true&gid=0
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/lv?hl=en_US&key=0Akn4rrFWhKUAdE51a1ZOc1RtQ21sR185Wm52a3daSmc&hl=en_US&f=true&noheader=true&gid=0
karentey75
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Baby journey, rem one of the early preg symptoms is af wanna come feeling wor... These symptoms r damn irritating... So similar to AF de... Sigh
oceantulips
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Hi,
Haven't been logging in & already have a few alot posts to look thru.
i1bb,
I heard of vitex and am taking now. It to help in pcos and regulating menses. Saw alot of good reviews at iherb hence bought to try.
Eskimobaby,
I will be seeing Dr Loh tomorrow, thinking of checking with him about transferring to TMC for Fet. Are u starting your FET soon?
LuvNhope
Same as u, I'm left with 4 embbies. When are u starting your FET? I'm thinking of doing in Feb so as to rest well. My advice is to take a break for few months first cos fresh cycle has more hormones. Told by Dr Loh previously. In the meantime, tiao our body. How old is ur dd? My ds is coming to 3 and I'm so anxious to give him a sibling.
Haven't been logging in & already have a few alot posts to look thru.
i1bb,
I heard of vitex and am taking now. It to help in pcos and regulating menses. Saw alot of good reviews at iherb hence bought to try.
Eskimobaby,
I will be seeing Dr Loh tomorrow, thinking of checking with him about transferring to TMC for Fet. Are u starting your FET soon?
LuvNhope
Same as u, I'm left with 4 embbies. When are u starting your FET? I'm thinking of doing in Feb so as to rest well. My advice is to take a break for few months first cos fresh cycle has more hormones. Told by Dr Loh previously. In the meantime, tiao our body. How old is ur dd? My ds is coming to 3 and I'm so anxious to give him a sibling.
Ocean,
I was deliberating btwn Jan n Feb, but think I'll take everyone's advice here n wait till Feb to give myself more time to tiao my body. I hope my embies survive the thaw well n that I have the chance for two FET if needed. You're following Dr Loh over?
My DD's already 4, will be 5 next year. I also hope to BFP soon so that she can have a companion.
I was deliberating btwn Jan n Feb, but think I'll take everyone's advice here n wait till Feb to give myself more time to tiao my body. I hope my embies survive the thaw well n that I have the chance for two FET if needed. You're following Dr Loh over?
My DD's already 4, will be 5 next year. I also hope to BFP soon so that she can have a companion.
karentey75
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Hi ocean, thanks for your reply. Can I know where you bought vitex from and how much?
Dear gals,
I saw baby's heartbeat today. 12mm, 400beats, 7w3d, edd 15 aug. but dr Loh is not very optimistic cos of my severe adenomyosis. He has given me mc till the end of my first trimester on 31 jan. will affect my work greatly but nothing is more impt than bb now. Next appt at TMC on 13 jan
will stay hang around this thread ya?
Dear i1BB, Babysmurf, luvnhope, Joanne, hope,
Thanks so much for your well wishes!!
Dear babyhug,
The passing bhcg at KK is 250. My first measurement was 167.5, second was 400plus 2 days later. If its below 250, they'd ask you to do it again to check if it doubles. Here is a website for average readings of successful pregnancies
www.betabase.info (I can't open the link now though, unsure why)
Dear dolly gal,
I'm keen to go for massage. Your Malay lady does massage for Preggies? Can share contact pls? Thx in advance!
I saw baby's heartbeat today. 12mm, 400beats, 7w3d, edd 15 aug. but dr Loh is not very optimistic cos of my severe adenomyosis. He has given me mc till the end of my first trimester on 31 jan. will affect my work greatly but nothing is more impt than bb now. Next appt at TMC on 13 jan
Dear i1BB, Babysmurf, luvnhope, Joanne, hope,
Thanks so much for your well wishes!!
Dear babyhug,
The passing bhcg at KK is 250. My first measurement was 167.5, second was 400plus 2 days later. If its below 250, they'd ask you to do it again to check if it doubles. Here is a website for average readings of successful pregnancies
Dear dolly gal,
I'm keen to go for massage. Your Malay lady does massage for Preggies? Can share contact pls? Thx in advance!
karentey75
New Member
Hi sashamama, so happy for u! U r right. Bb is of utmost importance now. Work is secondary. Must relax and rest well ok
Hi sashamama
Wah.. Congrat to u... So happy for u..
but dun understand why doc Loh is not very optimistic since already see hb? Did he say by when then consider more stable? Wah.. Rest for sooo long... So u going to tell ur company abt ur pregnancy? How r u feeling recently? Got any ms? Laoshi must be very happy ya... when is ur edd?
Wah.. Congrat to u... So happy for u..
but dun understand why doc Loh is not very optimistic since already see hb? Did he say by when then consider more stable? Wah.. Rest for sooo long... So u going to tell ur company abt ur pregnancy? How r u feeling recently? Got any ms? Laoshi must be very happy ya... when is ur edd?
daylesford
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Tickles,
*Waves*. Still remember me ? When r u planning for your fresh/fet ?
*Waves*. Still remember me ? When r u planning for your fresh/fet ?
Noi : I hv no symptoms in my 2ww except a patch of red blood (not spotting) which I tot was menses cos was so much. I hv no sore boobs no cramps no backpain etc whatsoever until 7-8 weeks later. I tested at 12dpt cos of the blood and was bfp. So u see, no symptoms also can! Hv faith! I know it's tough cos yr mind can be running v wild just like me in the past. At 7 to 8 weeks then I felt loss of appetite, pain boobs and queasy. Then at 9 weeks which is now, all gone away and so normal again.. But I know bb is doing well cos got laoshi feedback to me when I still go for healings. I try not to think so much and read into symptoms everyone is different.. My dad stays stay happy n stress free - bb will be a cheerful one!
Sue : u welcome. glad u enjoy the healings!
I felt there are 2 kinds of bosses - one empathetic and allow time off and try to help. Another do things by books and felt that's yr problem. I chose to tell my boss as I like to believe they r from the first group sice I hv been working there for 8 yrs.. And she just said everyone has their own set of problems and we can't be helping everyone if everyone in the Dept also hv such problem. No time off for me; everything must be official; take leave or mc. If u not around, we'll just ask other colleagues to do yr work. I used up all my mc and took leave lor. In the end i work right up to my ET day. No colleagues to cover me or for me to brief before i go. When on 2ww HL, I also work from home to ease my colleagues load. Anyway I regretted telling them. So kns! And got kaypo not sincere people also ask me what happen; can say a not! I told her cannot. Ask for what right? Kaypo and not directly related to my work ask for chit chat topic only.. Plus I know she is the laughing face tiger sort of people. Suck up to big bosses only.
I felt there are 2 kinds of bosses - one empathetic and allow time off and try to help. Another do things by books and felt that's yr problem. I chose to tell my boss as I like to believe they r from the first group sice I hv been working there for 8 yrs.. And she just said everyone has their own set of problems and we can't be helping everyone if everyone in the Dept also hv such problem. No time off for me; everything must be official; take leave or mc. If u not around, we'll just ask other colleagues to do yr work. I used up all my mc and took leave lor. In the end i work right up to my ET day. No colleagues to cover me or for me to brief before i go. When on 2ww HL, I also work from home to ease my colleagues load. Anyway I regretted telling them. So kns! And got kaypo not sincere people also ask me what happen; can say a not! I told her cannot. Ask for what right? Kaypo and not directly related to my work ask for chit chat topic only.. Plus I know she is the laughing face tiger sort of people. Suck up to big bosses only.
