Hi tnsw
I was worried about you so I try to login as often as I can.
Yes, I spent about $1.5K to do SO-IUI but it din work for me. The sperm and my egg just wouldn't unite.
tnsw, of course you can face the world. The fault does not fall onto you. There are alot of factors that will contribute to a failed pregnancy. A couple of failure doesn't not mean you will fail forever. Remember, success comes after failure. I myself also went through a series of failure and disappointment before I succeed with my 1st bb. Dun forget that your son still needs your love and attention and you have to be strong.
If you really have to go through IVF again, we will be here for you to give you support and encouragement. You will not be alone. But now, go through your d&c and recover well first. Without the best state of your health, how are you going to survive the next IVF?
Ok, after your d&c, as usual, do not take any liang food and cold drinks. Do take Bai Feng Wan once a week a few days after your d&c (stop when your menses comes). Also, 1 week after your d&c, try to take dong cong cao, if possible, double boiled it with lean pork meat or black chicken (if you dun take pork). For dcc, drink continuously 2x in a month. For your meals, eat normally but healthily.
Although some women with lower grade of embryos do make it to full term, of course, we will still prefer the best grade to make it to the end. Maybe also your embryo wasn't strong enuff. Sometimes it is better to happen now than later, rite? Whatever it is, dun think of what is the actual cause cos it is very difficult to determine. Even RE/gynaes are not able to confirm the cause. The is nothing much we women can control but to make sure our body recover well to conceive again and produce a healthy bb.
Is someone accompanying you for your Mon appt? Can your mum make it? Dun go through it alone. Let me know if you need help ok?
