Hi y'all,
thanks for all your wishes.
Just came back from KK , saw SFLoh and he comfirmed that it's gone now. Can do again in about 2 months. I wish can do sooner, but i guess better to prepare body. last time i waited 3months in between surgery and FET, so thinking back my last Bhcg test til now is 6months!!! It all adds up and takes so much time. My MIL wants us to try naturally for a few months but I dont think I want to, already too long and i'm getting older. My hb pointed to the kite and asked her to take it home fly it... haa haa. It took me a while to realise what he was saying...
Anyone has any recipes for things to make body strong again, like black chicken with what? My MIL wants to make for me... but we aren't chinese so she doesn't have any idea what to add.
I am also going to re-start taking Yomeishu and essence of chiken daily. You all take Yomeishu before? Really need to take 3x/day is it? Scared i will get drunk, how to work like that?
Also, Dr Loh said next time round if positive, I will have to RIB for first few weeks also just incase. To try adn prevent repeat erformance. Really hope i get the chance. To strike 2 times out of 2 already very lucky, dont know if myluck will hold out. I guess I have to see it as God telling me not to give up on this process, that's why he gave me so many frozen embbies and gave me a positive this time, altho eventually not meant to be. I just cant help wondering if there was anything i did like being too active.
Babychloe adn NicoleG,
I understandhow you all feel abt frens who are preggy. This last month i gave been invited to 3 first month/ first year parties and I have said no to all 3. I figure, i dont want the sadness (and related stress hormones) to affect me, and if they are good frens they will understand anyway. Dont put yourselves through the pain, its not worth it.
Also, it helps me to think that it's easy for them , but there may be something else in their life which is not as smooth as ours. Our time will also come butmaybe its not theright time yet. having kids is but one aspect of our long and fulfilling lives. (but right now a huge important one)
I have a fren who got pregy after 1month of trying but 3mths into the pregnancy her husband was often unfaithful and useless, she was sobbing at the pool at midnight with 9month belly and he didnt even come after her... like that also no good right? So we dont know the whole picture often, and we should try to see the good as far as we can.