Hi mesara,Ladies am done with et. Good and bad news. Out of 16 retrieved 10 matured 4 fertilized and only 2 grade 4 can be used. Nothing to freeze. Hope n pray my two darlings will grow beautifully in me.
Yap.Are they supposed to give us inserts after er. Think for me didn't. Forgot. So start today ugesterone n progynova
Long protocol supposedly helps with all the eggs to grow at the same speed and to similar sizes.Dr Loh says that long protocol will help for more mature eggs .. Is it really true..
I believe you will succeed! You are now technically pregnant!
I had short protocol in my first cycle. Retrieved 13, 10 fertilized. But only 3 made it. Your case qite similar to mine.Heard my tcm does not do acu after et. Shall go n check with him.
Ya long protocol I have more eggs but think I shud have taken something for the quality. Dont knw why out of 10 matured only 2 survived.
Hope,2 fertilized or survive? I am ultra worry for my coming cycle., I m getting older.. Worry that there is none available..
Oh ya.. I wanted to ask the same question!.. Can we take video of the ET process?.. Can take audio recording of what they say of our eggs/lining status?.. So it seems hvta take it secretly?..It happens after et. We even secretly use our phone to record down the update cos they speak really fast.
No video or pictures allowed. We wantec to take a pic during the first cycle but was told that we cannot do so.Oh ya.. I wanted to ask the same question!.. Can we take video of the ET process?.. Can take audio recording of what they say of our eggs/lining status?.. So it seems hvta take it secretly?..
I don't think can video. my dh only secretly turned on the audio recording.Oh ya.. I wanted to ask the same question!.. Can we take video of the ET process?.. Can take audio recording of what they say of our eggs/lining status?.. So it seems hvta take it secretly?..
No video or pictures allowed. We wantec to take a pic during the first cycle but was told that we cannot do so.
I am not even sure they will allow sound recording.
Ok.. thanks ladies.. den i shall pre-empt DH to on the audio recording on the way in to the room.. also.. after ER.. they'll let us know the status right?.. did they write it down for you ladies?.. cos after GA sure super stone.. i scared i cant remember a thing they say leh.. lol..I don't think can video. my dh only secretly turned on the audio recording.
I see.No.. 3rd.. My 2nd cycle is very bad as compared to my first.. So don't know what will happen for my third
They will tell u how many retrieved along with other instructions when u r up and about.Ok.. thanks ladies.. den i shall pre-empt DH to on the audio recording on the way in to the room.. also.. after ER.. they'll let us know the status right?.. did they write it down for you ladies?.. cos after GA sure super stone.. i scared i cant remember a thing they say leh.. lol..
ok noted.. must make a mental note to write down what they say man.. 1 more month to go for me..They will tell u how many retrieved along with other instructions when u r up and about.
Hi redvel,Hi all. I am trying to catch on with all the member names here
I also take red bean soup midway from my stimming as i heard the lining shouldn't be too thick from the start of the cycle. And after ET, I will take durians on top of those other stuff I have been consuming.
Thanks portia and mesara. Mesara I shall keep my fingers crossed for you. And continue to eat and think healthily. My big boss told me before I left for my HL : "Must believe it will happen". I think it's a very simple sentence yet it's full of positivity and sometimes faith is really what keeps us going.
Portia oh your ET was not too long ago. My BT is on 21May. Good luck to you too.
My ET wasn't done this morning. But will be Wed. Our numbers are good so after much discussion and also opinion from Dr Sadhana, we decide to do blasto.
Out of 16 eggs, 12 are mature. 8 are fertilised though 1 is still under monitoring so safely say we have 7 usable ones. I have always wanted blasto from the beginning but I know ivf is a number game. So I was prepared to do day 3 if my numbers are not ideal. But now that I got 7, I did ask Dr what is her opinion for me. She said if I were to be 22, she suggests go ahead for ET today. But due to my age (I'm 40s), day 3 is merely 20% success rate. She feels blasto will give me better chance. She seems confident I surely have something for Wed. The only risk is nothing to freeze by then. I discussed with hubby again and we both feel we shall trust Dr's expertise and proceed with the blasto culture. Yes we may end up no frozen ones but at least that one shot is a better shot than day 3. Moreover she shares that some embies can't thaw well so frozen is not 100 percent usable.
Today I'm being prescribed progesterone inserts. Nurse told me even though ET is not done today, I can start inserting to even better prep the lining for wed. At that point, I was thinking why not let us ladies have it days before our ET, right? I mean if it's good to be inserted before ET. I mean in a way lucky that I get the pills before my Wed ET. But if my ET was indeed this morning, then I would really prefer to have the medicine say on monday to start with. Oh well.
I'm scheduled on Wed as first patient for the ET.
I must say so far the experience at kkivf is a pleasant one. Every staff whom attended to me are caring and they know their stuff. I will put in some good words after all the procedure is done.
Mesara,My 2nd considered worse than first. Outnof 6 I had 3 fertilized used 2 and one snowbie. This time none tho 16 eggs. Am v shocked but just have to feel blessed with the 2 grade 4s. Now on all positive tots n energy and no more looking back.
Agree, dolly gal.Ladies it's not abt qty but quality. When I had 15 follicles, my gynae n dh said enough. They want good ones not many.. dh said got many but no good ones for wat.. sing the same tune as dr...
Yap...No overstim. 10 mature nice. All icsi. Dont knw why didn't make it. Sperm also I told u 4 hrs outside. Maybe reason also. But dont think much lor. This is the bfp cycle. Lets jia you
Hi portia I've no knowledge about embie grading. How and what's the grading for an embie?
I understand the risk too and I did tell my hubby how all these blasto culture works in the lab. Sometimes we can't play with time. However Dr seems confident about my embies (I didn't ask about grading) therefore we are even more geared towards blasto. Plus she mentions my age concern. So here we go.
To me, all these numbers and quality over quantity stories are just conversational. When whoever is mighty up there says it's time, it will land on you.
Good luck.
Heard my tcm does not do acu after et. Shall go n check with him.
Ya long protocol I have more eggs but think I shud have taken something for the quality. Dont knw why out of 10 matured only 2 survived.
Hope I had 16 retrieved 10 matured and 4 fertilized. Maybe saizen mite have helped me in quality but I dont knw
Mesara,
I rem you stim for 2 more days than me even though our scan results for follicles were similar sizes. Did thd embryologist tell you ghe reason why for low transfer grade? Did they overstimulate and eggs were too 'mature'?
Well, now we just look forward and hope that the 2 we transfered will become a bfp for twins for us. Then there is no need for use for any froxen for s while.
Jklim,What happened to the other 2 fertilized ones? Grade 2 or 1 and hence discarded?
Yes, blastocysts have different ratibg i think. Maybe, you need to ask on wednesday and share with us.Portia thanks for the explanation. I will ask Dr this wed about the grading. I wonder does blasto have a different set of grading? I kinda remember someone told me grading has alphabets ? Or I remember wrongly.
Yap. It's over. Let's just look fwd and pray for a bfp!The other 2 were discarded. I didn't ask were they too matured but just asked how many matured and good for icsi n she said 10. Ya review doc wanted to trigger on sunday and I asked to extend a day as follies were small. But in the end trigger was on wed nite coz of the public holiday. No clue why but dr tan said since I have endo its common to have this result on quality. When I visitwd dr.loh on sat he also said can stim till monday and wed trigger. Sunday was too early. This was after he scan me. Anyway too early also risky too late also risky. I am not gonna brood over this until my bt
Jklim,
Do we have an option to freeze? I was told that one of mine is a grade 2 with a unhealthy looking nucleus and hence cannot be frozen.
I guess as much... i specifically ask if i can freeze... answer is no cos it looks unhealthy and chances of it surviving the thaw is very low...BAbe, new mgt, different ways of doing things. Under dr loh's time, grade 2 wun be discarded.
My gf did natural FET under dr Loh and transferred one grade 2 an another grade 3/4. Kana boy girl twins, now 4yrs old leow. Dr loh even said her grade 2 snow bb even made it!
That's dr loh, he wun waste any embyro.... n he was right... even grade 2 may make it to live birth...
I guess as much... i specifically ask if i can freeze... answer is no cos it looks unhealthy and chances of it surviving the thaw is very low...
Progynova needs to be taken daily all the way till BT otherwise the lining cannot support ur pregnancy... Which will then change to duphaston