Ladies I dun write here much cos I m always busy with kids now that maid has left. Guess what? I just found out on weekend that my hub is having an affair with his colleague. They have been together since beginning of year. He tells me he feels strongly for this woman cos I was never there for him. Our relationship has been strained for years cos he feels I am neglecting him n spending too much time with kids. He said I have changed n he doesn't feel love at all. While here I am slogging my way taking care of the kids n the household, I always wanted him to help out but he rarely does cos he travels every week from Monday to thursday. When he is back, he is catching up with his sleep. So I never tot he had the energy to hook up with another woman. Now, I m living in constant fear, insecurity, n helplessness. Pls kindly pray for our family. I am losing my sanity. I still have to look after kids n pretend nothing has happened while my heart is bleeding profusely. He said he will tell her to leave. He will break up with her. But he looks so painful when he was saying that. He said emotions r involve, so it is not as easy to cut it off. What shd I do now? I can't do anything except pray. Is there any counsellors out there to help my sanity?I really need to share with a counsellor.