purin,
wow reach home at 12 midnight is very late...
mmm...do it aft DS sleep and leave him with maid? in that case not very convenient hor? for me i will not go out w/ hubby and leave my dd at home w/ maid lor, even if my dd is asleep.
that's why i know i am lucky to have my parents ard, and even luckier that my dd is very close to them. every thur afternoon once they reach my place, my dd will be sooo happy then when i am leaving the house my dd can say to me so loudly "BYE MUMMY! SEE YOU!".
that's why every thur when i go out i can do it with peace of mind cause i know my dd is happy spending the day with her grandparents and she is having too much fun to think of and miss me.