Hi gals
It's been a long time since i last posted. i have been reading ur postings though and i am so glad that jac_horse, wanbb and ondine have conceived!!!
Jac_horse, i understand wat u are going thru now. Now is not the time for u to worry too much. Make sure u rest well, and i am sure things will turn out to be fine. Trust me, u are in good hands. Dr Foong is a good doctor, and i am sure he will do his best for u and baby, just like wat he is doing for me.
Curl, dun be disheartened. i am sure ur wish will come true next year. Trust the doctor, he knows wat he's doing.
Some updates on me and babies. The last few weeks had been a traumatic one for us. i lost one of my sons in week 30 due to IUGR. At week 28, he was only half the weight of his siblings. He was in distress and the only way to save him was to deliver all the babies straight away. However, that would mean compromising the other 2 healthy babies. After discussing with Dr Foong and a maternal fetus expert, we decided to let this baby take his chance, hoping that the situation would improve and he could wait till at least week 30 to be delivered. Unfortunately, my little one din make it. He passed away in week 30, there was not foetus heartbeat by that time. At week 31, my water bag burst and my surviving twins had to be delivered.
i am now under confinement, but i make it a point to visit my twins at the NICU regularly. Losing one of my sons is a blow to us, however, we believe he should be in good hands now. We have always regarded him a brave fighter. He managed to survive till week 30, despite his sickly condition. He has given his siblings a better chance of survival by sacrificing himself. He will always be in our minds.
Well, enough of the sad news. Time to carry on with life. Wat's impt now is i still have my twins with me. They are 1.3KG and 1.7KG at birth, one boy and one gal.
Dr Foong has been a fantastic doctor all these while. We are really fortunate to have him. If not for his help and support, i am sure things would be more traumatic for us.
i may not be posting so often, cos i will be rather busy visiting them at the hospital. Will prob update u gals again when things start to settle down.
Christmas is round the corner. Here's wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. May u have a smooth delivery and for Curl, i am sure ur dream will come true soon.