i really dk what he's thinking...
Everyday ask me to study for my paper (im taking a cert now) after kids sleep which is about 10pm. When i text n say that i'm going to study, he says im lying and say that i'm probably going out dating or somewhere. Continues to text me every 5 to 10 minutes about stupid stuff like how long his watch battery can last (just got a new smartwatch) and asking me what's the netflix password. By then it's 11pm and i give up studying.
Then he asks what i've been doing since 8pm when he knew i got home at 815pm and was having dinner, and resting after , and about 9pm kids came back after being out with their dad. Got them to bed around 930pm, then started my stuff. I told him, all this u are aware. And he says "ur life is determined by what u do after 7pm everyday". I shot back and asked him if all these material achievements mattered the most to him and that relationships didnt matter? He said, when material achievements are achieved, then relationships with friends n family will matter.I was like, WHAT?
We usually go work together and meet in the morning. But he woke late today and told me to go ahead first. He called me about 803am, when i just dropped my girl off at sch. At 850 i said i was reaching my workplace, and he says how could i possibly be outside the sch at 815am and reach work at 850? Implying that my ex probably sent me to work (not the first time he's implying this). I showed him my call log that he called me at 803am and not 815am. I asked him why does he purposely want to find fault with me??? He said oh, (sarcastically) that he didnt know he called me at 803 instead of 815..
Was at my place yesterday. Came into my room and asked me how come i called my ex at midnight , after he checked my house phone call log. Immediately i dismissed his stupid comment because my house phone can see placed calls but cannot see the time it was placed. Moreover i didn't even call my ex. I almost rolled my eyes at him while saying that i didnt call, and most probably it might have been my daughter who called (cos she sometimes calls her dad). He sarcastically says "oh, so she call him at midnight?" I just wanted to punch him but i quietly grit my teeth before saying again that i didn't call my ex at all.
Heard cries from the kids room, and went to take a look cos it wasn't really normal. Went to take a look and it was my elder one cos she had nightmares, i think. Received multiple texts asking where did i MIA to. I said my elder girl had nightmare. He asked me why i had to entertain her and even go attend to her cos she's old enough. Im like hello she's just a kid?? Thinks that i pamper my kids too much. I said she's just a kid and he says, ok, ask her to smuggle drugs. See what the judge sentence her. I said hello, im talking abt a nightmare, u'r talking abt this? He says, it's the same logic. WTF?
Video calls me one day to check if im really at home studying. I said ya la studying. Then he abruptly hangs up. I'm left in the air hanging so i text and ask what's going on. He replies saying 'Boring'. Im like, wtf? U just hang up like that and cite the reason boring? I totally cant comprehend. I bombard his phone and demand an apology. He says he will apologize only after i finish studying. WTFFFFFF???? We get into a huge argument and he refuses to pick up anymore calls. Texts and say hes tired an wanna sleep, don't disturb him. Next day acts like nothing happened. ANd i never got my apology.
whats wrong with such ppl?
Everyday ask me to study for my paper (im taking a cert now) after kids sleep which is about 10pm. When i text n say that i'm going to study, he says im lying and say that i'm probably going out dating or somewhere. Continues to text me every 5 to 10 minutes about stupid stuff like how long his watch battery can last (just got a new smartwatch) and asking me what's the netflix password. By then it's 11pm and i give up studying.
Then he asks what i've been doing since 8pm when he knew i got home at 815pm and was having dinner, and resting after , and about 9pm kids came back after being out with their dad. Got them to bed around 930pm, then started my stuff. I told him, all this u are aware. And he says "ur life is determined by what u do after 7pm everyday". I shot back and asked him if all these material achievements mattered the most to him and that relationships didnt matter? He said, when material achievements are achieved, then relationships with friends n family will matter.I was like, WHAT?
We usually go work together and meet in the morning. But he woke late today and told me to go ahead first. He called me about 803am, when i just dropped my girl off at sch. At 850 i said i was reaching my workplace, and he says how could i possibly be outside the sch at 815am and reach work at 850? Implying that my ex probably sent me to work (not the first time he's implying this). I showed him my call log that he called me at 803am and not 815am. I asked him why does he purposely want to find fault with me??? He said oh, (sarcastically) that he didnt know he called me at 803 instead of 815..
Was at my place yesterday. Came into my room and asked me how come i called my ex at midnight , after he checked my house phone call log. Immediately i dismissed his stupid comment because my house phone can see placed calls but cannot see the time it was placed. Moreover i didn't even call my ex. I almost rolled my eyes at him while saying that i didnt call, and most probably it might have been my daughter who called (cos she sometimes calls her dad). He sarcastically says "oh, so she call him at midnight?" I just wanted to punch him but i quietly grit my teeth before saying again that i didn't call my ex at all.
Heard cries from the kids room, and went to take a look cos it wasn't really normal. Went to take a look and it was my elder one cos she had nightmares, i think. Received multiple texts asking where did i MIA to. I said my elder girl had nightmare. He asked me why i had to entertain her and even go attend to her cos she's old enough. Im like hello she's just a kid?? Thinks that i pamper my kids too much. I said she's just a kid and he says, ok, ask her to smuggle drugs. See what the judge sentence her. I said hello, im talking abt a nightmare, u'r talking abt this? He says, it's the same logic. WTF?
Video calls me one day to check if im really at home studying. I said ya la studying. Then he abruptly hangs up. I'm left in the air hanging so i text and ask what's going on. He replies saying 'Boring'. Im like, wtf? U just hang up like that and cite the reason boring? I totally cant comprehend. I bombard his phone and demand an apology. He says he will apologize only after i finish studying. WTFFFFFF???? We get into a huge argument and he refuses to pick up anymore calls. Texts and say hes tired an wanna sleep, don't disturb him. Next day acts like nothing happened. ANd i never got my apology.
whats wrong with such ppl?