Hi Mummies,
I feel that my marriage is on the verge of breaking down. My husband & I have been married for 2.5 years, we were living separately until we had a kid recently. That is when things started happening. We are almost quarrelling once / twice a week, after moving in together.
For example, he refuses to let me help out around the house & insists on doing everything himself. I’ve volunteered to help out many times & he just refuses to let me. He will then complain he has to do everything himself & I am not helping out etc. When we are quarrelling , he always demands that I pack up my stuff & move out of the house immediately or he’ll sent the kid away to his parents’ house. He will apologise, after he has cooled off. But after saying all those nasty stuff, but my feelings are already hurt it’s pointless to apologise for it. I’ve also paid my share of mortgage for the house. Although , financially I do not contributed a lot to our family he has no right to ask me to move out of the house, right?
We are having serious communication issues & I know it is not easy maintaining a family. I feel very sad to give up my marriage like that, but I am very depressed & on the verge of breaking down. I am considering divorce, please advise me.
I feel that my marriage is on the verge of breaking down. My husband & I have been married for 2.5 years, we were living separately until we had a kid recently. That is when things started happening. We are almost quarrelling once / twice a week, after moving in together.
For example, he refuses to let me help out around the house & insists on doing everything himself. I’ve volunteered to help out many times & he just refuses to let me. He will then complain he has to do everything himself & I am not helping out etc. When we are quarrelling , he always demands that I pack up my stuff & move out of the house immediately or he’ll sent the kid away to his parents’ house. He will apologise, after he has cooled off. But after saying all those nasty stuff, but my feelings are already hurt it’s pointless to apologise for it. I’ve also paid my share of mortgage for the house. Although , financially I do not contributed a lot to our family he has no right to ask me to move out of the house, right?
We are having serious communication issues & I know it is not easy maintaining a family. I feel very sad to give up my marriage like that, but I am very depressed & on the verge of breaking down. I am considering divorce, please advise me.