Just got my hand on a copy of this book and was not able to close it until I finished it. Every stories bring tear to my eyes and a tug in my heart.
http://adoption.tcs.org.sg/ourveryownbook.pdf
@Mrs Ha,
1) I dont really think there are really any "caught-us-off-guard" questions, we do get asked about the way our parents disciplining us and relate to us and how did we find it shaping our values and action today, or rather how have it shaped our perspective on parenting
2) my hubby do felt a lot of the questions are really personal and required him to go deep down to seek his views on it. But again we both felt it was good sessions for us to reflects on stuff we may not aridi know about ourselves.
3) Do remember one thing which many seniors here shared, the HSR officiers are not there to "failed" us. I dont think there are a definite right or wrong answer to many of those questions.
4)During HSR we were both rather proactive in posing a question back to the officier to ask if she does have any thought on the topic we were discussing esp since she has been in this journey w many parents before us. I think being humble to admit we are not "know-it-all" esp in the area of parenting and showing the attitude of being teachable is always something they are looking for.
The truth is one of the key characteristics of a parent is teachability ;P somehow these little Angels are God send to teach us new exciting stuff in life.
Just remember they need to go into details to protect the child who eventually become our child
U have come a long long way, CONGRATs on reaching this milestone to start HSR soon !!! Will be keeping hubby n you in our prayers !!!