liztan
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hm,about the "taboo" part,I've got that feeling coz' one of my hubby's close fren adopted and the couple didn't really want pp to know their child is adopted.
You do have much to share, glad that you are enjoying parenthood so much.
as for the "lookalike" comments, actually, my gal does look like me in some ways. Although they are pp commenting that she doesn't look like her sis (my natural child),it din bother me that much. I'm just afraid it bothers her when she grows older.
I guess, in my case, most things that I fear concerned her feelings, rather than how we are going to cope with it. Mine is a very sensitive child,I can forsee it will not be easy for her to accept her "differences" from her peers, esp during teens.
You do have much to share, glad that you are enjoying parenthood so much.
as for the "lookalike" comments, actually, my gal does look like me in some ways. Although they are pp commenting that she doesn't look like her sis (my natural child),it din bother me that much. I'm just afraid it bothers her when she grows older.
I guess, in my case, most things that I fear concerned her feelings, rather than how we are going to cope with it. Mine is a very sensitive child,I can forsee it will not be easy for her to accept her "differences" from her peers, esp during teens.