IronMaiden80
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My baby is turning 7 weeks old and he hates it when I carry him, especially when I need to soothe him, he will wail even louder and it's very depressing. He uses his hands and legs to kick me away! My mil will barge in whenever he cries and snatch the baby away... To make things worst, my baby actually stops crying whenever he is in her arms. Now it has become a habit for her to grab my son away when he cries. Sometimes she will bring him into her room for quite some time until I ask my husband to check on baby. I've told her nicely many times not to carry him immediately because he will get used to it and it will be hard for me when I take care of him during the day as she is working and I'm left on my own with a baby who can't be pacified. I've asked her to teach me the right way to carry as I'm a first time mum but she will brush aside and tell me he doesn't like the way I carry as I am too skinny. She used to tell me not to carry my baby / order me to put him in his cot when I'm carrying him as he will be spoilt but she is not practicing what she preached! I am not stopping her from being a grandmother but I feel she can show me the way instead of snatching him which leaves me feeling very useless as a mother.
I love my son very much but I don't understand why he hates the way I carry him yet sometimes he can fall asleep on my chest. I feel so helpless everyday and get scared when he cries during the day as I'm afraid I can't soothe him. Is there anywhere I can get help / guidance on how to handle him?
I love my son very much but I don't understand why he hates the way I carry him yet sometimes he can fall asleep on my chest. I feel so helpless everyday and get scared when he cries during the day as I'm afraid I can't soothe him. Is there anywhere I can get help / guidance on how to handle him?