hi all, aft reading all yr exp, it really gives me a stronger will to be a SAHM.
i guess it's always the heart vs head debate going on. but i have a feeling that my heart will rule my head haha!
Tyan, i am sure we are not in the same sch coz i am the only preg woman in my sch now
but i guess it wont be difficult to find out where each other is teaching ! hee hee...
actually if i were to quit aft this child, i am giving up quite a lot. Pay, bonus, chance of promotion, maternity leave for my 2nd child which i plan to have in 3 yrs time, and of coz my connect payout in 2008. but on top of all these, i still think nothing monetary is more impt than my kid
unless without my job, my kid has to starve or be deprived of basic needs lah!! hee hee
and tyan, at least u and hubby have savings, for my case, we have zero savings lor.. haha! and until now we are still paying off our bank loans for wedding and house (have been clearing debt for 3yr+ we are married). luckily our loan is clearing in a couple of mths' time. and luckily my hubby's job is stable and paying quite ok (enuf to feed family of 3 i believe haha), so as long as he doesnt quit his stressful job, i believe we can live a simple and happy, though not luxurious life.
i agree with priscilla, the first couple of yrs are very crucial. i always believe that it is impt to build a gd foundation in the first 12 yrs of a kid in order for him/her to grow up to be a gd person. of coz there is no guarantee but i believe it helps a lot.
i have also heard from pple telling me that first few yrs before the kids "dong shi", it is ok to leave them in other pple's care. but i dun agree lor... maybe i am very possessive, so regardless of the age of my kids, as long as their character are not moulded yet, i wld still prefer to raise my kid the way i want them to be. i guess it is equally impt for babies coz this is when we bond with them. who knows, it might make a lot of diff