preciousfaith07
Member
Hi mummies,
Im a bit stress by what I shd do. Im gonna deliver my 2nd baby in Jan'2011 and I am wondering if I shd get a confinement lady. My elder daughter will be 4 next year and will also start nursery in Jan'2011.
I always thought I shd be able to cope by myself becoz from experience of the 1st confinement. I hardly ate more than 2 meals becoz i had no appetite. I took care of my daughter round the clock becoz i breastfeed and dont express at all. That confinement lady got sacked after she need me to do mopping n cooking by myself. Maybe the problem will be on housework, I thought I can get those part-time cleaners to come to my house say 3 times a week to do simple housework.
I got reminded today that how can i carry my new born and bring my daughter down for school when my c-sect wound have not healed.
My husband is the sole breadwinner for now and i try to lighten his burden as much as i can. What should I do? My mum had passed away and my MIL is working. Hate the feeling that I need to rely on someone. Can mummies with 2 kids advise me how you went thru ur confinement? Is it possible to do it by ourselves?
Im a bit stress by what I shd do. Im gonna deliver my 2nd baby in Jan'2011 and I am wondering if I shd get a confinement lady. My elder daughter will be 4 next year and will also start nursery in Jan'2011.
I always thought I shd be able to cope by myself becoz from experience of the 1st confinement. I hardly ate more than 2 meals becoz i had no appetite. I took care of my daughter round the clock becoz i breastfeed and dont express at all. That confinement lady got sacked after she need me to do mopping n cooking by myself. Maybe the problem will be on housework, I thought I can get those part-time cleaners to come to my house say 3 times a week to do simple housework.
I got reminded today that how can i carry my new born and bring my daughter down for school when my c-sect wound have not healed.
My husband is the sole breadwinner for now and i try to lighten his burden as much as i can. What should I do? My mum had passed away and my MIL is working. Hate the feeling that I need to rely on someone. Can mummies with 2 kids advise me how you went thru ur confinement? Is it possible to do it by ourselves?