patsy, that's what i thought. my 1st maid has 2 kids, and when she look after my boy, she always home sick and cry (every night, like house haunted). plus the hubby always called and the kids do not want to talk to her, she even more sad!. after 1 1/2 year, pretended sick and wants to go home (but asked not to sent to agent. clever ah!) hubby said no, go home, you go to agent. but she smart, she planned everythings, and knows that agent will deduct her salary for staying with agent, so before she pretend to be sick, she sent all her money back to indo.
we thought she was a good maid, as she really take care of our boy, and very automatic, no need to teach much and do more than what has been asked. we really treated her like a family member. after she left, then my boy told me that "aunty" punished him for crying or throwing tantrum by standing ourside our house. we were stunt!!!!
so, we concluded to get a single who can also play with my boy (only child), but this current one, ah ya! just want to have fun! how i know, already getting full pay, and CNY, and other festivals get ang pow, but saving only $100. asked her why so little, never mind, madam, still single no need to save much ???? what can i say! married, cry everyday, single, want to have fun, divorced-widowed, maybe naughty (hubby said cannot! they know what is SEX!, not so innocent!) my hubby chia lat!