josephine27
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Hi mummies, Tam, Starz.. can I know the age of ur good maid?
My this maid hav pro n con.. maybe my expectation is too high
I'm hoping for an independant helper.. when she 1st came(new).. I will called her.. u can take ur lunch/dinner..but till now(3weeks),still hav to?..or she will ask me if she can eat?I know its good when she ask me, but.. I realise, when she ask me sound like she is not happy.. (this is wat i think,even she is not saying this way.. I'm so busy,cant u help me so that I can take my meal).. as she cant organise her work..for example, I giv her timetable to take her bfast after she wake up before starting work,but she prefer to eat after 9am..which she will be busy with washing/ bb care(so expect me to help her).. I told her she can take her 3meals, when the children eat liao.. n dont hav to wait for me to call her to eat/ ask my permission.. when we bb/child care,we will make sure the kids eat 1st n settle them(eg.let them play or put to sleeep)then we hav time to eat..
For changing bb diaper, do u wear back the used diaper after bathing the bb? the reason she said the diaper not really wet.. haiz.. my bb bath at 7am(change diaper) and I ask her to change again at 12noon, next change 6pm bath n 12midnight after feeding(unless bb motion,change anytime after motion). But just now, I saw her want to change bb diaper(3pm)..n find out that..she actually didnt follow my instruction.. she didnt change at noon, n wait till very wet only change, I ask, then bath at 6pm change again.. she said no, use back if not so wet.. I really dont know what to say liao.. just wondering if I'm the one that not normal??..
We went to supermarket, I feel like I'm the maid.. ya she carried my bb in sling, n just follow me.. like robot.. when I pay $ at counter.. she walked outside n wait at the exit.. I busy like siao..(even my boy help me,hold her sis hand)I take things place at counter,pay $,put thing in trolley, push trolley home.. She only carried bb out,walk there n walk home..
I dont know, maybe previously, my maid will help me choose fruits/veg together if she know I want to buy, make it more fast n I can feel she participate doing the marketing together. Ex-maid also carried my girl, help to push trolley/pack things in after I paid.
Am I asking for too high standard or I have been pamper by my previous maid(ex-maid will try to do anything herself without my help). Is this normal or I expect too much. That's why I cant go to work n leave her w bb alone.
I'm confused.. sometimes she make me feel that I can tahan her/want to continue her(cos hav gd point), sometimes make me no words to say..vomit blood.. keep on telling myself no ppl r perfect, at least she is better than previous 2 but not my standard/not what I want..
same time afraid get the next,turn out worst than her.. wonder if I can get someone at least like my previous so gd at bb/child care, yet independant.. so long I can work n travel(company trip).. or I should stay home till my bb older(now 6mths)..when she can talk.
My this maid hav pro n con.. maybe my expectation is too high
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I'm hoping for an independant helper.. when she 1st came(new).. I will called her.. u can take ur lunch/dinner..but till now(3weeks),still hav to?..or she will ask me if she can eat?I know its good when she ask me, but.. I realise, when she ask me sound like she is not happy.. (this is wat i think,even she is not saying this way.. I'm so busy,cant u help me so that I can take my meal).. as she cant organise her work..for example, I giv her timetable to take her bfast after she wake up before starting work,but she prefer to eat after 9am..which she will be busy with washing/ bb care(so expect me to help her).. I told her she can take her 3meals, when the children eat liao.. n dont hav to wait for me to call her to eat/ ask my permission.. when we bb/child care,we will make sure the kids eat 1st n settle them(eg.let them play or put to sleeep)then we hav time to eat..
For changing bb diaper, do u wear back the used diaper after bathing the bb? the reason she said the diaper not really wet.. haiz.. my bb bath at 7am(change diaper) and I ask her to change again at 12noon, next change 6pm bath n 12midnight after feeding(unless bb motion,change anytime after motion). But just now, I saw her want to change bb diaper(3pm)..n find out that..she actually didnt follow my instruction.. she didnt change at noon, n wait till very wet only change, I ask, then bath at 6pm change again.. she said no, use back if not so wet.. I really dont know what to say liao.. just wondering if I'm the one that not normal??..
We went to supermarket, I feel like I'm the maid.. ya she carried my bb in sling, n just follow me.. like robot.. when I pay $ at counter.. she walked outside n wait at the exit.. I busy like siao..(even my boy help me,hold her sis hand)I take things place at counter,pay $,put thing in trolley, push trolley home.. She only carried bb out,walk there n walk home..
I dont know, maybe previously, my maid will help me choose fruits/veg together if she know I want to buy, make it more fast n I can feel she participate doing the marketing together. Ex-maid also carried my girl, help to push trolley/pack things in after I paid.
Am I asking for too high standard or I have been pamper by my previous maid(ex-maid will try to do anything herself without my help). Is this normal or I expect too much. That's why I cant go to work n leave her w bb alone.
I'm confused.. sometimes she make me feel that I can tahan her/want to continue her(cos hav gd point), sometimes make me no words to say..vomit blood.. keep on telling myself no ppl r perfect, at least she is better than previous 2 but not my standard/not what I want..
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