eh....sorry to interrupt...cannot stand keeping quiet haha...
hi chalkey (onsansg), wah eh she so jialat u still keep her arh...I think u really can...
I tell u, if my maid ever told me to cook my own food n she cook hers...I wont bargain or answer her, i will call the agent up and send her back to agent....lolz..
comeon, she's here to help isn't it. Let me tell you, if all she can do is simple housechores, den every new maid can do and even do a better job den her...cos they still new n scare do wrong....
So attitude still keep her....haiz.... really thumbs up for u all haha...
Well, I must say not all Myanmar maids dislike kids but I would normally get those around 24yrs onwards and also try to get eldest in the family with siblings where they are more independent and mature also...
but still all in all, I seriously think it's all luck also....before this current one, I have 2 more Myanmar maids. 1st stay for 2yrs, like kids, 24yrs, eldest. 2nd one is jialat...stay for 2 weeks, also eldest n 24 but she keep crying when she see the baby crys....she say she's scare....so also difficult to say de...
But if the maid really got attitude problem, i think better don keep her. she's not here to work one. come in, instead of helping u, she's giving more trouble and become another kid for u to look after. and 三天两头 keep saying want this n that...where got so much time to entertain her...if not, u better ask her seriously, does she want to work??
I'm also against the idea of maids holding HPs. I try not to let them have it. I told the agent at the beginning that no hps, no off days....but this hp thing is really hard to control. Must die die during work time, no hp is allowed.....
Transferred maid not all really not good. 1st must see the reason for terminating the earlier one, den must see the look. although there's a saying that we can't judge a book by it's cover, but there is also another saying: 像由心生 (hope it's correct)....I still believe that a person look will show if she's serious in work or type of attitude....at least about 90% correct.... so getting transferred maid is still okay la. My sis also got her current maid from transferred. with her for 2months+ liao...so far still ok la (cross finger)....her previous employer hit her...so she still seems ok for now...
come to the end, it's still that sentence: Depending on luck one....heng heng get good ones... But really, if got problem and is prolonged problem, please try to find better alternatives. you won't be so unlucky all the times.... end up having maid u still have to cook for her to eat.....hmmm...something wrong rite... think u try talk to your maid, ask her if she wanna work n tell her ur requirements. you need her to do this n that.....thou a bit late to do that now but still better den don say....else u going to put up for another 1yr......i cannot take it if me hahaha....
cheers