Accidentally pregnant may shamed your family. But it still your own decision for a little life that all depends on your. The little life needs your love, need your supply of blood to carry nutrients, oxigen..everything from you.. it is part of your life!
I will tell you a story of my friend..
she was pregnant before she get married. Although she already with her bf for a couple of years already, although she initially wanted to have the baby and get married with her bf... but never thought that her bf first reaction of hearing about her pregnancy was to look thru the web for a doctor who handles abortion. My friend got a shock.. She was disspointed and heart-broken. Finally she went thru the process.
Maybe ppl will find that she is stupid, she is cruel, or she is a murderer.. but.. it turned to be a revenge to her bf at the time.. she wanted to let her bf regrets of not marrying her and not keeping her baby...
just after the abortion, my friend wanted to break with her bf with her broken heart..
after a few weeks.. they been together again...
But my friend just felt that she will never love her bf just as before..
About a year later.. my friend pregnant again, but this time, her bf proposed to her and promised to raise the baby together and will love her forever..
After all, they have a baby gal and they loved her very much. I can see that they love each other more than before! This baby brought their love back!
Who can judge that the abortion is right or wrong? Who can be the judge?
I personally feel that, they got to be responsible to what they had done. My friend told me that she regrets with her abortion, but from there, she learned to apreciate life and love her family more! If she got chance to make decision again, she will not go for the abortion due to revenge.. it is very stupid and ignorant! And now the only thing she can do is to love her HB and BB very very much...*sigh*
nothing can be done for the past, just treasure whatever in your life! Abort or not abort, life must be treasure and has it means. And, life still have to move on..
Just to tell a little true story of after abortion.. Especially share with those already aborted.. Think they will understand how my friend feels.. No offence.. ok?
please put a smile on your face, it will make you look better!