posh,
We love kids too!
In fact, I want 4 - 2 boys 2 girls just nice (as if can plan.. haha..). Hubby thinks 2 is enough. Anyway, I am quite certain I will change my mind after I have my 1st. Haha..
How long have you been trying? If only a few months, then maybe not necessary for SA test yet. Probably the baby time has not come for you yet.
In fact, some gynaes will say go natural 1st and return for checkup only if still not conceived in 1 year. If have been trying for some time, good for him to test. If your hubby is slightly senior, good to test too. At least, you know what to do in case it is his problem.
My hubby is 6 years my senior (I am 30 this year). So, my gynae asks him to do the test think on the 2nd cycle we are seeing her (we started seeing gynae after TTC 3 months). Indeed, his sperm count is not very satisfactory. Think because of his age and work stress. Luckily hubby took the test and willingly.
I have been on TCM since Dec last year. Was not drinking the medicine regularly initially cos very troublesome. Was not willing to commit the time. But was very hardworking for the past 3 months. Now become part of our routine.
Improvement wise, my BBT chart has improved. BBT is higher after O. I was so excited the 1st time I saw the high temperature. Haha! My body also felt warmer. Other than that, not much.
My hubby is more observant to his body. So, he felt the change more. He felt more energetic (the medicine also 'bu' kidney). He felt his 'didi' is more 'alive' (I don't know how to describe. I am not sure if you know what I mean
). Also, at times, during my O, dr will add medicine to increase his sexual desire. Hehe..
I am not sure how good is my TCM. Cos till now, I have not succeeded yet. But, since we quite like her, and what she says makes sense to us, and a lot of patients are seeing her (cos waiting time is long - some consolation), we will just follow her. At least we don't feel stressed waiting to see her compared to waiting to see gynaes. In fact, we quite look forward to chatting with her.