A place for the TTCs.. (Trying To Conceive)
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yuying,
it's not easy to 'kan kai',
i keep telling myself that originally i didn;t even want kids...and now when hubby wants one so much, we still can't have one.
sometimes, things happen when they happen and there is no reason why some things happen the way it happens. so it's no point asking the whys and finding fault with oneself.
it only makes this journey harder to bear.
it's not easy to 'kan kai',
i keep telling myself that originally i didn;t even want kids...and now when hubby wants one so much, we still can't have one.
sometimes, things happen when they happen and there is no reason why some things happen the way it happens. so it's no point asking the whys and finding fault with oneself.
it only makes this journey harder to bear.
mermaider,
i'm not so good fortune to xiang3 fu2... not directed at me one... i dun dare to ask MIL iron my clothes... hmm, maybe one day i shd try, just to see wat kind of reaction on her face?! hahahaha! But better not better not... cos she sure use hot iron on my clothes, argh!! Anyway, doesn't matter whether MIL iron or not, in the first place we already have a part-time helper, heehee... perhaps i sound ungrateful? But i'm really angry dunno why she so stubborn, and then her son actually allowed her to stand for 5 hours, make her until so tired, aiyo can't stand both of them lah!
Chubb,
believe it or not, yes my MIL irons her precious' underwear and every single piece of clothing before he moved out... But no way in my house, no way i'll let her do something so ridiculous!
i'm not so good fortune to xiang3 fu2... not directed at me one... i dun dare to ask MIL iron my clothes... hmm, maybe one day i shd try, just to see wat kind of reaction on her face?! hahahaha! But better not better not... cos she sure use hot iron on my clothes, argh!! Anyway, doesn't matter whether MIL iron or not, in the first place we already have a part-time helper, heehee... perhaps i sound ungrateful? But i'm really angry dunno why she so stubborn, and then her son actually allowed her to stand for 5 hours, make her until so tired, aiyo can't stand both of them lah!
Chubb,
believe it or not, yes my MIL irons her precious' underwear and every single piece of clothing before he moved out... But no way in my house, no way i'll let her do something so ridiculous!
chubbyfishes
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Nat,
Wow! Thats incredible!
Wow! Thats incredible!
bb_hopeful
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yuying,
try not to think so much. if they ask, jus say still trying lor. skarli they give u lotsa "bu", lagi better for u also?
nat,
i admire ur MIL man! i dun even bother to iron. my hubby & i wear crease-free clothes. now dat he dun need to wear shirts, even better for me... think i haven't iron any clothes for more than a yr liao. the only time i need to iron a dress, was for someone's wedding, cos my mum was ironing hers, i asked her do for me also. haha! avoided the task!
mei2,
my tampon in my bag for more than a mth liao. sianz! bring than cannot use...
try not to think so much. if they ask, jus say still trying lor. skarli they give u lotsa "bu", lagi better for u also?
nat,
i admire ur MIL man! i dun even bother to iron. my hubby & i wear crease-free clothes. now dat he dun need to wear shirts, even better for me... think i haven't iron any clothes for more than a yr liao. the only time i need to iron a dress, was for someone's wedding, cos my mum was ironing hers, i asked her do for me also. haha! avoided the task!
mei2,
my tampon in my bag for more than a mth liao. sianz! bring than cannot use...
greenapple
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yuying, your hubby also fr Penang? don think so much lar..the more the think about it the more stress u give to yourself.
Like this morning my boss also told me she might not able to save me to stay on to this company till I deliver. To me, I already be prepared the worst..so I told her nvm, if u try your best to save me then I'm glad, otherwise, I'll see what I can do then.
Like this morning my boss also told me she might not able to save me to stay on to this company till I deliver. To me, I already be prepared the worst..so I told her nvm, if u try your best to save me then I'm glad, otherwise, I'll see what I can do then.
bb_hopeful
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mei2,
wah! so now waiting for chance to use tampon ah?
yuying,
neber mind wat ur hubby say abt visiting gynae. if he dun like, maybe u visit the gynae & see wat he/she say first?
apple,
how come ur co not pro-family one? btw, is ur co the one relocating to shanghai?
wah! so now waiting for chance to use tampon ah?
yuying,
neber mind wat ur hubby say abt visiting gynae. if he dun like, maybe u visit the gynae & see wat he/she say first?
apple,
how come ur co not pro-family one? btw, is ur co the one relocating to shanghai?
bb_hopeful
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apple,
dun worry so much ya? mebbe u can relax at home first or find those easy temp job to pass the days & earn a bit income?
mei2,
not kiasu lah. skarli AF come, then "luan shou luan jiao" mah... better be prepared
dun worry so much ya? mebbe u can relax at home first or find those easy temp job to pass the days & earn a bit income?
mei2,
not kiasu lah. skarli AF come, then "luan shou luan jiao" mah... better be prepared
chubbyfishes
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Elmo,
Not my MIL la! Is Nat's....hehehehe..u n me today blur blur.
Not my MIL la! Is Nat's....hehehehe..u n me today blur blur.
chubbyfishes
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yuying,
No hvnt checked. Waiting for a few more days...95% no strike one la
No hvnt checked. Waiting for a few more days...95% no strike one la
Mei2, juju,
today i can use my tampon liao...
Yuying,
dun stress the poor postman, he's coming soon, heehee!
Mei2,
yes she dotes on my hubby a lot...
But too much for his own good, i feel! I think she ought to care for herself more! Her son is not as filial as she thinks...
Elmo,
how can i teach my MIL how to iron clothes? When she keeps saying she is very quick and good at ironing??? I rather she spoil the clothes (not mine anyway, hahaha) than to spoil my relationship with her...
today i can use my tampon liao...
Yuying,
dun stress the poor postman, he's coming soon, heehee!
Mei2,
yes she dotes on my hubby a lot...
Elmo,
how can i teach my MIL how to iron clothes? When she keeps saying she is very quick and good at ironing??? I rather she spoil the clothes (not mine anyway, hahaha) than to spoil my relationship with her...
Nat,
err... if cannot then dun let her iron liao...
my MIL also iron clothes for me... but I cannot complain... cos she does a better job than me at half the time.
but sometimes other things I will ask her whether can "like this or like that or not"....cos if not I cannot tahan also....
err... if cannot then dun let her iron liao...
my MIL also iron clothes for me... but I cannot complain... cos she does a better job than me at half the time.
but sometimes other things I will ask her whether can "like this or like that or not"....cos if not I cannot tahan also....
elmo,
just this cycle only. the pain is so bad that can wake up in middle of night in cold sweat.
saw a gp on mon, he gave me some painkillers and told me to call the gynae if it persists.
today is thur and still painful, though the pain is not as bad as until nausea and cold sweat.
i called the gynae just now but he's busy operating - kinda feel like my issue is eh not major compared to someone who has to under an operation, so didn't leave a msg for him to call back.
think menstrual pain shd not be a big issue rite?
just this cycle only. the pain is so bad that can wake up in middle of night in cold sweat.
saw a gp on mon, he gave me some painkillers and told me to call the gynae if it persists.
today is thur and still painful, though the pain is not as bad as until nausea and cold sweat.
i called the gynae just now but he's busy operating - kinda feel like my issue is eh not major compared to someone who has to under an operation, so didn't leave a msg for him to call back.
think menstrual pain shd not be a big issue rite?
chubbyfishes
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Elmo,
Dont think of me too much leh....kekekkeke
Mei2,
Me quite sure no need to use HPT la....siao siao one.
Dont think of me too much leh....kekekkeke
Mei2,
Me quite sure no need to use HPT la....siao siao one.
elmo,
i know, u want me to grow more chubby, heehee... i'm trying!
Tat's why now i will hide all the clothes, cannot let my MIL see, heehee... last time was dirty laundry (i stuffed into washing machine in a feeble attempt to hide, but she found out, hahahaha, hence the remark that too much smelly clothes will spoil the washer!
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mei2,
ya lor, like i told u! Once temp drops, sure AF will pay visit... aiyo today i blur, go and use the slim kind of tampon, then so fast must change, feel wet lor... haha, so gross!
Ya, i'll call the clinic shortly!
i know, u want me to grow more chubby, heehee... i'm trying!
mei2,
ya lor, like i told u! Once temp drops, sure AF will pay visit... aiyo today i blur, go and use the slim kind of tampon, then so fast must change, feel wet lor... haha, so gross!
Yuying: the more you looking forward and trying hard, the more one wont get it. be real relax... gng back to his hometown makes u feel uncomfortable to face the pregnancy topic? darling girl, we are all human, who does not face this topic? After one gets pregnant, the next topic is boy or girl... well tts life. Maybe you are too stress, but you should be real relax. You should prepare and head back with him to his hometown... if anyone ask, well... tell them, you too wanted to have one... but it not the right time yet.
Take things a step at each time... while taking this time to really BU you body and your hubby's body too.
Jia You..
Apple: sounds like ur CO very anti family. maybe after leaving the job, consider another after you due.
I see tummy bigger each day.. and getting dunno excited or worried... dunno wat to expect. But i wish to spread all the baby dust to all our TTC friends here... Jia YOu, but always stay relax... Both yk and myself are rather sure tt we will be holding a 1st mth bb celebration... will invite all the Auntie(s) here to gather n carry little Clarisse and spread all the bb dust.
Apple: sounds like ur CO very anti family. maybe after leaving the job, consider another after you due.
I see tummy bigger each day.. and getting dunno excited or worried... dunno wat to expect. But i wish to spread all the baby dust to all our TTC friends here... Jia YOu, but always stay relax... Both yk and myself are rather sure tt we will be holding a 1st mth bb celebration... will invite all the Auntie(s) here to gather n carry little Clarisse and spread all the bb dust.
mei2: tomolo i gng u know.. kkekeke come come come.. kekeke... cham.. this time i only know hopeful.... i dun have all the numbers.... okok.. some sms me when u all find a plc to sit n coffee. ok? 93669005 - Carole
loving: i am trying to get my car back... if can i send u home..
tts not a problem.. if i have car... how abt MJ? MJ u wan u can come... i can send u home after i send loving.. onz bo?
loving: i am trying to get my car back... if can i send u home..
Dear Erin,
how are u feeling now? Got cramps bo... i dun have leh... but better dun say so soon, in case later kena cramps, hahaha! I'm going for another bloodtest on my thyroid, its a bit crazy to test only after 2 weeks of medication, but its doc's orders! U leh, when u are due for next bloodtest?
how are u feeling now? Got cramps bo... i dun have leh... but better dun say so soon, in case later kena cramps, hahaha! I'm going for another bloodtest on my thyroid, its a bit crazy to test only after 2 weeks of medication, but its doc's orders! U leh, when u are due for next bloodtest?
hi naturally,
got cramps. u so lucky ah. no cramps. hope it remains this way for u.
i'm going for blood test in 2 months plus. just went 2 weeks ago. now stop med. PTU too strong for me. caused my T4 to fall too. actually, i shd take carbimozle (wrong spelling)but that's not gd for bb (if i managed to conceive) so now no med. will see how then.
got cramps. u so lucky ah. no cramps. hope it remains this way for u.
erin...
i suspect PTU is not so suitable for me too! I dun feel so well after taking it... last time when i took carbomazole (i also dunno spelling?) no side effects at all, and then my TSH went up to normal levels within 2 mths... think i better feedback to doc... but wat to do? If want to have bb, must take this PTU lor... otherwise it can be very bad for us to have hyperthyroid and to be preggie at the same time...
i suspect PTU is not so suitable for me too! I dun feel so well after taking it... last time when i took carbomazole (i also dunno spelling?) no side effects at all, and then my TSH went up to normal levels within 2 mths... think i better feedback to doc... but wat to do? If want to have bb, must take this PTU lor... otherwise it can be very bad for us to have hyperthyroid and to be preggie at the same time...
bb_hopeful
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nat,
so happy to use tampon ah? dun blur blur use wrong size leh...
babymaking,
painful menses not to be taken lightly. dun be like me, ignore the pain & now, hard to ttc
so happy to use tampon ah? dun blur blur use wrong size leh...
babymaking,
painful menses not to be taken lightly. dun be like me, ignore the pain & now, hard to ttc
erin,
i'm not seeing a specialist for my thyroid... just my gynae at RH lor, i hope the side effects are normal, else maybe really have to see specialist... btw, i made a mistake, i'm not supposed to do my thyroid test on CD2, hee, shd be CD12 do bloodtest together with ultrasound scans to prepare for IUI! ha, all of a sudden i'm feeling excited that maybe i can do IUI very soon! heehee... siao liao!
Erin u're seeing a specialist, so guai guai listen to him okie?
Hope all goes well with u... maybe after u're off PTU, your thyroid will decide to behave itself?? heehee!
i'm not seeing a specialist for my thyroid... just my gynae at RH lor, i hope the side effects are normal, else maybe really have to see specialist... btw, i made a mistake, i'm not supposed to do my thyroid test on CD2, hee, shd be CD12 do bloodtest together with ultrasound scans to prepare for IUI! ha, all of a sudden i'm feeling excited that maybe i can do IUI very soon! heehee... siao liao!
Erin u're seeing a specialist, so guai guai listen to him okie?
bb_hopeful
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nat & erin,
yeah! pray both ur thyroid will guai guai also!
yeah! pray both ur thyroid will guai guai also!
bb_hopeful
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yuying,
then act blur... dun think abt those hidden meanings, ok?
jus take it as a break from ttc-ing & try to relax
then act blur... dun think abt those hidden meanings, ok?
jus take it as a break from ttc-ing & try to relax
yuying,
dun care those 'hidden' word. jus shut down both of ur ear will do. if ur hb insist wan to go back, u jus follow lor..anyway jus few day stay there only.. tis is wat i do always lor.. i also dun like go back my hb hometown, although my relationship wif his siblings very good, but still feel uncomfortable..
but no choice, still need do my part since not everyday must go back..
if u really dun wan go back wif hb, jus let him know wat's ur real feeling.. dun think too much.. cheer up..
dun care those 'hidden' word. jus shut down both of ur ear will do. if ur hb insist wan to go back, u jus follow lor..anyway jus few day stay there only.. tis is wat i do always lor.. i also dun like go back my hb hometown, although my relationship wif his siblings very good, but still feel uncomfortable..
if u really dun wan go back wif hb, jus let him know wat's ur real feeling.. dun think too much.. cheer up..
hi gals,
just came back from hsg today.
then a very 'sway'incident happened... while taking a cab home just 2 streets away from my home, met with an accident, the cab i am taking crash into the opposite fast coming car drove by a youngster with his girlfriend. kanna a big swellen blue black on my leg and forehead. must go pray pray. really down on my luck.
just came back from hsg today.
then a very 'sway'incident happened... while taking a cab home just 2 streets away from my home, met with an accident, the cab i am taking crash into the opposite fast coming car drove by a youngster with his girlfriend. kanna a big swellen blue black on my leg and forehead. must go pray pray. really down on my luck.
yeetay,
so how was your hsg? good?
u're so fortunate to escape with only blue-blacks... but then, remember to see doc immediately if u feel nauseous or see double-vision, cos that means concussion leh... dun play play!! u did hit your head right?
Can escape serious injuries is already a blessing, yes shd go pray pray...
so how was your hsg? good?
u're so fortunate to escape with only blue-blacks... but then, remember to see doc immediately if u feel nauseous or see double-vision, cos that means concussion leh... dun play play!! u did hit your head right?
Can escape serious injuries is already a blessing, yes shd go pray pray...
