A place for the TTCs.. (Trying To Conceive)
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happysunflower
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Hi Loving,
Think positive ok? Hugs...
I know it's stressful, but you gotta try to relax and be positive about it
Think positive ok? Hugs...
I know it's stressful, but you gotta try to relax and be positive about it
mashybrainz
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Congrats Manuka! So happy for you!
Elmo
Don't worry, it's only 1 time. Probably both of you are too stressed up. Think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Perhaps you need a holiday to spruce things up. Don't worry. Try again lah. There's always another chance.
I spent 2 frustrating years of not being able to BD. Too painful. Only able to do it recently. So kind of understand how it feels not being able to do it. Feel bad for my hb too. He's been so patient with me. Somemore so embarrassing to tell anyone.
How's Garfield? Haven't heard from her since. Been watching the thread for her reply. I hope she's alright.
BTW, what's a saliva kit?
Elmo
Don't worry, it's only 1 time. Probably both of you are too stressed up. Think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Perhaps you need a holiday to spruce things up. Don't worry. Try again lah. There's always another chance.
I spent 2 frustrating years of not being able to BD. Too painful. Only able to do it recently. So kind of understand how it feels not being able to do it. Feel bad for my hb too. He's been so patient with me. Somemore so embarrassing to tell anyone.
How's Garfield? Haven't heard from her since. Been watching the thread for her reply. I hope she's alright.
BTW, what's a saliva kit?
sneaky,
ya, finally see FERN!
thks Hopeful for her advise n trick, really can see it only after eating, but early morning cant see anything at all
strange....
Me gng for wisdom teeth operation on 8th March, so cant TTcing lor
Loving,
hang on strong okie,gal?
ur HCG test will be fine, meanwhile keep telling n touch ur tummy to ur bb be strong
ya, Juliann
Sandy cant join us,
she sms me last nite too
Lyn,
be positive ok?
u will get preggie soon
Mei Mei,
grap well of the opportunity
BD for the next 2 or 3 days!!
Ladies,
since I am ovulating soon,
will i be able to see follicles or eggie tomr when I do V scan?
shld be lor hor?
ya, finally see FERN!
thks Hopeful for her advise n trick, really can see it only after eating, but early morning cant see anything at all
strange....
Me gng for wisdom teeth operation on 8th March, so cant TTcing lor
Loving,
hang on strong okie,gal?
ur HCG test will be fine, meanwhile keep telling n touch ur tummy to ur bb be strong
ya, Juliann
Sandy cant join us,
she sms me last nite too
Lyn,
be positive ok?
u will get preggie soon
Mei Mei,
grap well of the opportunity
BD for the next 2 or 3 days!!
Ladies,
since I am ovulating soon,
will i be able to see follicles or eggie tomr when I do V scan?
shld be lor hor?
happysunflower
New Member
Loving, dun lose hope yet ok? You need a positive mind to fight it
Hi Juliann,
think I cannot make it today for the gathering liao.
got to go and fetch hubby....
can you help me "molest" the preggy ladies then pass the luck to me?
heeehhheeeee.....
Hi Sandy, Hope you feeling alright..... take good care ya?
Hi Daisy,
glad to hear from you....
keep wondering what happened to you..... know what you meant.... busy busy....... didnt managed to get preseed cos the last 2 times I went there, they were closed so suay..
Hi gals,
I'm feeling ok already. Yesterday seen gynae liao and seek help. He gave me something that supposedly will help during BD *shy shy* he did a scan and found on developing egg
So Happy! so he asked me to try BD during the weekend and then go back to him next week .. will probably give me an injection to help the egg a bit *cross my fingers*
think I cannot make it today for the gathering liao.
can you help me "molest" the preggy ladies then pass the luck to me?
Hi Sandy, Hope you feeling alright..... take good care ya?
Hi Daisy,
glad to hear from you....
Hi gals,
I'm feeling ok already. Yesterday seen gynae liao and seek help. He gave me something that supposedly will help during BD *shy shy* he did a scan and found on developing egg
happysunflower
New Member
valerie, maybe will see one ovary being bigger than the other...
Loving,
we are all here for u, as i said continue to talk to ur bb
glad ur husband is strong
Marshybrain,
saliva kit is a mini microscope to test for ovulation using our saliva sample
Sneaky,
although heart itchy itchy want to try but dun want to take the risk,
i will be taking antibiotics n painkillers after my operation, so nt good lor
somemore 8th March is my CD21...very dangerous....
anyway tomr will ask my gynae abt this matter, see what is her advise
we are all here for u, as i said continue to talk to ur bb
glad ur husband is strong
Marshybrain,
saliva kit is a mini microscope to test for ovulation using our saliva sample
Sneaky,
although heart itchy itchy want to try but dun want to take the risk,
i will be taking antibiotics n painkillers after my operation, so nt good lor
somemore 8th March is my CD21...very dangerous....
anyway tomr will ask my gynae abt this matter, see what is her advise
val.. keke me will BD again tonite.. already told hubby liao.. lucky he is on leave today oso 
y not u BD 1st then go extraction for ur wisdom tooth??
Wahahah got a pillow to put underneth my butts after BD yesterday for abt 5 mins hubby ask me y then told him so that his cong cong "sperm" can swim faster
y not u BD 1st then go extraction for ur wisdom tooth?? Wahahah got a pillow to put underneth my butts after BD yesterday for abt 5 mins
hubby ask me y then told him so that his cong cong "sperm" can swim faster 
ling,
thanks!!! but now one worry...if I still can't strike after finish the 6 cycles of clomid then wat is the next step? give up? IUI?IVF?....i really dun wish to go through tat...not only it is a financial burden..but also a strain emotionally and physically...
I try not to think too much....now really immune to see AF report....I just DON'T BELONG to this
'fertile women'category....
I am fine...just worry about the above point....
naturally,
cos my boss lor...ask me join him for the evening dinner as there are a lot of overseas guests attending...so I got to go...
thanks!!! but now one worry...if I still can't strike after finish the 6 cycles of clomid then wat is the next step? give up? IUI?IVF?....i really dun wish to go through tat...not only it is a financial burden..but also a strain emotionally and physically...
I try not to think too much....now really immune to see AF report....I just DON'T BELONG to this
'fertile women'category....
I am fine...just worry about the above point....
naturally,
cos my boss lor...ask me join him for the evening dinner as there are a lot of overseas guests attending...so I got to go...
happysunflower
New Member
Now I feel that TTC very stressful and disappointing
It's the constant keeping track of temperature, predicting ovulation, etc. Then BD even when tired just in case missed the egg... I am finding it so stressful
Dun feel like TTC liao... There's no enjoyment in sex.. just trying for baby...
Hi gals,
I just recieved a surprise from my hubby, he send a bouquet of flowers to my office today. Make me so touched that I cried..... haiz.... nothing is as important as hubby's love. TTC is only part of it, having a bb will be the result of our love, we shouldn't be too focus about TTC and forgot the reasons why we marry in the first place.... just my thoughts....
I just recieved a surprise from my hubby, he send a bouquet of flowers to my office today. Make me so touched that I cried..... haiz.... nothing is as important as hubby's love. TTC is only part of it, having a bb will be the result of our love, we shouldn't be too focus about TTC and forgot the reasons why we marry in the first place.... just my thoughts....
hi gals....
something to check wif u all.....i went to see my gynea on wednesday and he detected egg forming liao...so he told me to start using opk to test from yesterday but hor me forget abt it then this morning, my cd14...i tested and there's 2 lines...one darker and the other one slightly lighter so wondering i "o" or not??? cos saw the clearplan box state that both lines colors must be the same then meaning "o"...so me abit confuse lor.....any advise?? and if detect "o"...will it be only a day only or will still detect +ve if test again the next day???? pls advice me....
thank you so much all...
something to check wif u all.....i went to see my gynea on wednesday and he detected egg forming liao...so he told me to start using opk to test from yesterday but hor me forget abt it then this morning, my cd14...i tested and there's 2 lines...one darker and the other one slightly lighter so wondering i "o" or not??? cos saw the clearplan box state that both lines colors must be the same then meaning "o"...so me abit confuse lor.....any advise?? and if detect "o"...will it be only a day only or will still detect +ve if test again the next day???? pls advice me....
thank you so much all...
Lyn,
aiyo, huggies for u,
please dun be stress okie?
it's nt fun anymore if we think making love now is a chore
just recal the enjoyment n the intimacy u had wif ur husband
and also like Choo n Elmo,
they are so strong, positive liao
Hopeful,
so sweet of ur husband,
hee...show us ur flower tonite?
yup, married must be for love nt TTcing only
aiyo, huggies for u,
please dun be stress okie?
it's nt fun anymore if we think making love now is a chore
just recal the enjoyment n the intimacy u had wif ur husband
and also like Choo n Elmo,
they are so strong, positive liao
Hopeful,
so sweet of ur husband,
hee...show us ur flower tonite?
yup, married must be for love nt TTcing only
Hi lyn,
if you feel so stress abt TTC, why don't u stop doing everything, don't care about when u ovulate, just enjoy the married life with your hubby and make love as and when the passion arises. In the end, if you have bb, then it will be a blessing, if not, don't be too affected and disappointed by it. I know it's easier said than done, me too has been trying to be like that, but sometimes will be too overwhelm by the TTC thing.
if you feel so stress abt TTC, why don't u stop doing everything, don't care about when u ovulate, just enjoy the married life with your hubby and make love as and when the passion arises. In the end, if you have bb, then it will be a blessing, if not, don't be too affected and disappointed by it. I know it's easier said than done, me too has been trying to be like that, but sometimes will be too overwhelm by the TTC thing.
Hi classy,
from what I know, if you do not see 2 lines of the same darkness, that means u have not O and have to continue to test until u see 2 lines of the same darkness. I think most probably you'll be able to detect O tomorrow. Normally after detecting O, the next day, won't test already, so don't know will still see the lines a not. Maybe someone else can advise?
from what I know, if you do not see 2 lines of the same darkness, that means u have not O and have to continue to test until u see 2 lines of the same darkness. I think most probably you'll be able to detect O tomorrow. Normally after detecting O, the next day, won't test already, so don't know will still see the lines a not. Maybe someone else can advise?
Hi Choo/Val,
yes I will try to be positive!
Gynae say to start BD on saturday.....I can't wait to try the medication the gynae gave me... it supposed to increase the sensitivity of the vaginal and make it more wet so will not feel painful
*shy shy*
Gynae say to start BD on saturday.... so tomorrow than can start....
Hi lyn,
know exactly how you feeling.... hug hug...hang in there.....maybe you just start monitoring your CM first or just take temp... nowadays I just take temp cos really no time to do so many thing..... I believe alot of us here is also feeling the same thing... so hang in there!!
yes I will try to be positive!
Gynae say to start BD on saturday.....I can't wait to try the medication the gynae gave me... it supposed to increase the sensitivity of the vaginal and make it more wet so will not feel painful
Gynae say to start BD on saturday.... so tomorrow than can start....
Hi lyn,
know exactly how you feeling.... hug hug...hang in there.....maybe you just start monitoring your CM first or just take temp... nowadays I just take temp cos really no time to do so many thing..... I believe alot of us here is also feeling the same thing... so hang in there!!
<font face="calisto mt"> Val,
Sorry for e late reply. On MC; feeling so miserable w all e puking. I'll try to persuade HB to drop by China Square later if possible. If not then mayb u might want to email me either ur Office/hse addy so we can make other arrangements.</font>
Sorry for e late reply. On MC; feeling so miserable w all e puking. I'll try to persuade HB to drop by China Square later if possible. If not then mayb u might want to email me either ur Office/hse addy so we can make other arrangements.</font>
hopeful: i can contribute on the OPK thingy...here it goes: -
CD10 : Control line = extremely light
CD11 : Control line = super light
CD12 : Control line = very light
CD13 : Control line = light
CD14 : Control line = slightly darker
CD15 : Control line = even darker; almost same as Test line
CD16 : Control line = darker than Test line (this is when i ovulated on our 1st gathering day)
CD17 : Control line = slightly lighter than Test line
after seeing results on CD17, i know ovulation is over and it's no point testing liao.
where else can we meet? what's there?
CD10 : Control line = extremely light
CD11 : Control line = super light
CD12 : Control line = very light
CD13 : Control line = light
CD14 : Control line = slightly darker
CD15 : Control line = even darker; almost same as Test line
CD16 : Control line = darker than Test line (this is when i ovulated on our 1st gathering day)
CD17 : Control line = slightly lighter than Test line
after seeing results on CD17, i know ovulation is over and it's no point testing liao.
where else can we meet? what's there?
Hi Classy, for clear plan...if the test Line is similar to or darker than the Reference Line then ovulation can be expected to take place 24-36 hours later.
If the test line is not visible or if paler in colour than the Reference Line no LH rise has been detected.
Once you have detected your LH surge,
Your two most fertile days begin from the time that you detect your LH surge. If you make love at any time during the next 48 hours, you will maximise your chances of becoming pregnant. Once you have detected your surge there is no need to carry on testing.
Since you are not sure if you have ovulated, why not you do a temp test. If your temp is high, it means that you might have ovulated. If not high, continue to test the next couple of days.
hope this helps!
If the test line is not visible or if paler in colour than the Reference Line no LH rise has been detected.
Once you have detected your LH surge,
Your two most fertile days begin from the time that you detect your LH surge. If you make love at any time during the next 48 hours, you will maximise your chances of becoming pregnant. Once you have detected your surge there is no need to carry on testing.
Since you are not sure if you have ovulated, why not you do a temp test. If your temp is high, it means that you might have ovulated. If not high, continue to test the next couple of days.
hope this helps!
