thanks hopeful mum and emily,
thanks for the kind words.
dont think i am THAT lucky, cos i didnt manage to test any O period this month.
Just doing alternate, then stop then do ..... so no chance one la !
i will be back in the list for March date ........... sad to the max
pooh232, i think we are a bit similar. i oso din test O and my TCM see my temp chart oso tell me i nv O. She has never seen me O
i use the kit oso nv O, but sometimes the line is lighter sometimes no line. i oso dono how to see or judge so what i did was BD once every 2 to 3 days, if too tired then forget it, it's ok. Cos i knw if it's yours it will be yours.
Hello ladies! Just read ALL the posts after a v long day at work. Felt so guilty to work until 9pm tonight cuz I feel like im spoiling my body.
applied for new jobs too. Going for sth w 9 to 6 so I wont need to ot. Current job really stressful.
No menses symptoms yet but my temp decrease fr 37.4 to 37.0 today
stomach feeling tingly but I think maybe menses? Hahaha. not sure what is gg on. Tml AF supposed to reportm will try the test kit tml.. first time peeing into a stick (if I miss AF laaaa) so excited. Hope af doesn't report tml!! Wish me luck!
hwifie, ur temp 37.4 not fever??? wah if my temp goes up to so high i cfm fever lie on bed liao. cos my temp always very low one like 35+ degree C. GOOD LUCK!!! But sometimes it will be too early to test lei. My friend missed AF then she test after 3 days she missed, it was BFN. After 1 week+ she test again and got BFP.
My first iui failed.. Gynea said clomid wil thin lining.. So not very good for me so asked to try so-iui next.. Higher chances as well.. Iui chances decreases with repeated tries.. So cannot do too many times..
iui is definitely cheaper.. The procedure is less than 1k.. Ivf should be abt 8k to 10k.. So usually gynea will advise iui first unless sperm quality is really bad..
Thanks booy for clarification. Haiz i dono y. I am very forgetful and blur nowadays. Like super tired till drained. got the feverish feeling too.
everyday dragging myself to work. and i have heavy head like anytime wanna doze off lol
huh clomid will thin lining ah, alamak! i don think i will want to take tt, my health oso not very strong kind, ltr my lining thin till i die lol. my tcm ask me t
Good luck!! Still got chance!!
I guess for us ladies the priorities really do change after family planning... I used to be v career minded but now... Can go home early um chio liao.
that shld be the way! Jobs there are many... if your boss don like u, u can always change. No big deal. Family, u only have ONE. There is no way u can change family. Once it's shattered, hard to put them back. Jiayou! few more days to test! excited for u too.
As long af doesn't report, change is always still there! Baby dust to all!
thanks gooiee!
Thanks!!
True, career used to be my greatest priority but I see my perspective shifting after I decided to be a mum.
Anyway, wanna share sth silly w u girls. I dreamt that I had a BFP. Haha siao. I must be gg nuts thinking of conceiving.. anyway. . I dunno.. no symptoms, as mentioned. sighs. AF supposed to report today. Will update u all. Hahas.
Good luck to u. once in a while having those dreams are good lei. I long time nv dream liao.
Ladies, ivf no need come out cash because of govt grant n medisave. Ivf success is higher when u are younger so don't drag too long. Is not as invasive as what u think. Jabs similar to Soiui just that higher dosage. ER will be under anesthetic so u won't feel a thing.
As for iui u need to come out cash if I am not wrong n a lower success than ivf. Anyway from my own experience I would urge girls to do ivf while u young. Success drop when u reach 35.
Also don't go to normal gynae for fertility cos I feel that their experience are more on preg ladies n not tackle fertility issue. I wasted one yr with my normal gynae until I realized it one day. Going to a fertility dr open your eyes to a wide new world n they provide solutions for u.
Just want to share.
jumbo girl, wat u mean by normal gynae? i tot all gynae help to give birth in hospital? where to find fertility gynae? confused now
sob
angel mommy,
yes i did test 2 days on CD13 and CD15 with clearblue but all detected negative
i suspected likely i O early on CD10 which i didnt realise .... just that the discharge is more than usual and longer days ....
Just need to stay positive on this TTC journey.
hwifie,
i am also very career minded, and in fact ... all the while
now i am beginning to think, shall i slow down or give up ..... since now i also fly around alot for my job.
maybe its about time that i must put family first, rather than my job.
pooh232 why not u go n buy those test strips? i bought from forum or q0010, 50 60 cents each , those very cheap ones and test everyday? for me i test almost everyday. cos my O and CD also messy one.
morning mummies! i've graduated!! cannot resist and went to test this morning with first urine. felt something isn't right cause AF suppose to report in 2 days but stomach just feels weird.
CONGRATS little bud!!! i dono how to read the left one? saw only 1 red line??? happy journey MTB
dustygritty, i keep having cramps occasionally. on and off. feels abit like pulling sensation when got food poisoning hahaha and loose stool as well. i get the cramps when i had my #1 last time and I tot AF is reporting soon. decided to get the non digital clearblue to test and see. i thought my eyes playing tricks on me when i saw a faint + sign haha so try again on the digital clearblue
i'm taking blackmore CW for both #1 and now. i'm halfway through the box and i think somehow it does help me
little bud, i rmb wivi, a member who graduated from this chat., oso tell us abt blackmore CW too.
wow amazing ...
some technical details -- must use 1st urine of the day hor? so when you wanted to double check... how? 2nd urine also can?
actually my tcm told me check any time also ok one. so long as b4 checking u din consume a lot of fluid. cos when i see her for urine test it is also at night le.
