2WW - for those TTC-ing
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congrats, ceraine!
it's definetly $ well spent!!!
really happy for you! =)
yeah, you should have more bed rest. I agree with Liz, baby more impt yah. and if need be, prob have to let your boss know first. at least if you need to take mc to have more bed rest, he or she will understand? make your life easier.
may you and baby have a smooth journey!!!
hope to have more good news coming soon!!!
it's definetly $ well spent!!!
really happy for you! =)
yeah, you should have more bed rest. I agree with Liz, baby more impt yah. and if need be, prob have to let your boss know first. at least if you need to take mc to have more bed rest, he or she will understand? make your life easier.
may you and baby have a smooth journey!!!
hope to have more good news coming soon!!!
Hi Gals
Unfortunately i dun use BBT and OPK. So I cant pinpoint exactly when I O. Im basing on my usual O (8th -10th) when I see the white discharge...
However, strange thing happen is I got another round of white charge on the 14th. So now Im not sure if my O was late...
My menses is suppose to due on 23th based on 28 days cycle but until now there is no sight..
Been having on and off tummy cramp since last week (I tot another failed cycle again)...
I tried Clearblue on 26th but it's negative... Quite confirmed that im not preggie since it stated 99.9% accurate. But ceraine's case make me ponder again....
Alright, shall heed u gals advise to test this weekend if no show...
im not pining the hope of preggie.My tot is just let me see red asap if not preggie.. let me go on a new cycle again.
Neither here nor there is very tiring...cos alot of things you got to put on hold cos ur mind keep thinking WHAT IF STRIKE...
Sorry to be so lor soh...hehee
Unfortunately i dun use BBT and OPK. So I cant pinpoint exactly when I O. Im basing on my usual O (8th -10th) when I see the white discharge...
However, strange thing happen is I got another round of white charge on the 14th. So now Im not sure if my O was late...
My menses is suppose to due on 23th based on 28 days cycle but until now there is no sight..
Been having on and off tummy cramp since last week (I tot another failed cycle again)...
I tried Clearblue on 26th but it's negative... Quite confirmed that im not preggie since it stated 99.9% accurate. But ceraine's case make me ponder again....
Alright, shall heed u gals advise to test this weekend if no show...
im not pining the hope of preggie.My tot is just let me see red asap if not preggie.. let me go on a new cycle again.
Neither here nor there is very tiring...cos alot of things you got to put on hold cos ur mind keep thinking WHAT IF STRIKE...
Sorry to be so lor soh...hehee
BBK, are you usually late?
or lately have you been very stressed?
if you are very regular and have no late periods on and off, i think you should re-test soon.
i did have a case where my cycle was delayed for about 10+ days then it came. made me nervous during that period. but i tested -ve then too. so tot should be the usual case of sometimes menses late.
but i hope yours is not this case.
look forward to have another good news from you too!
*jia you*!
or lately have you been very stressed?
if you are very regular and have no late periods on and off, i think you should re-test soon.
i did have a case where my cycle was delayed for about 10+ days then it came. made me nervous during that period. but i tested -ve then too. so tot should be the usual case of sometimes menses late.
but i hope yours is not this case.
look forward to have another good news from you too!
*jia you*!
cuteoctopus
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Hey Ceraine, congrats!
Gals, how's everyone?
Today I CD16 still no BD wif DH yet. He is juz taking tis very easy...
Gals, I might quit my job early next yr to take a break from work...but nt sure if tis wise or nt..
Gals, how's everyone?
Today I CD16 still no BD wif DH yet. He is juz taking tis very easy...
Gals, I might quit my job early next yr to take a break from work...but nt sure if tis wise or nt..
Cute O,
sometimes my DH will also like this.
if not, sometimes i wait for him in the room till i tired already and want to sleep. by the time he finish his things and come in, i have no more mood and is too tired to BD already. haha....
it might be good to take a break from work maybe say for a few months to TTC but must make sure your DH is supportive and make the best of these few months leh.... if not, waste your effort. at lease during these few months you are stress free.
actually i also thinking of taking a few months break, but still thinking whether $ allows it.
at least i not so tired lor....
sometimes my DH will also like this.
if not, sometimes i wait for him in the room till i tired already and want to sleep. by the time he finish his things and come in, i have no more mood and is too tired to BD already. haha....
it might be good to take a break from work maybe say for a few months to TTC but must make sure your DH is supportive and make the best of these few months leh.... if not, waste your effort. at lease during these few months you are stress free.
actually i also thinking of taking a few months break, but still thinking whether $ allows it.
at least i not so tired lor....
cuteoctopus
New Member
Ya lor...wana take break but oso "xin tong" the $...how?
In fact, I feel like taking a break and then during the break I strike, no need to work alrdy, can be SAHM...keke
In fact, I feel like taking a break and then during the break I strike, no need to work alrdy, can be SAHM...keke
Dec and Cute O
ever consider no pay leave? I wanted to quit also but my aunt talked me out of it. I will wait a few months and see how. But will try to get MC or take leave during 2ww of SO-IUI.
Dec
sometimes I also wait for DH till i tired and no mood liao. told him off. now he will BD first then go and do his stuff. poor thing.
ever consider no pay leave? I wanted to quit also but my aunt talked me out of it. I will wait a few months and see how. But will try to get MC or take leave during 2ww of SO-IUI.
Dec
sometimes I also wait for DH till i tired and no mood liao. told him off. now he will BD first then go and do his stuff. poor thing.
eternitystar
New Member
Roxy,
Indeed this job as compared to the previous one is definitely more "siong" but somehow the environment suits me better bah, at least it keeps me really bz so that I won't have any time to keep my mind running wild *clucks*
Kea
*sayang* *sayang* told u expectant mums cannot keep crying rite? else later bb come out frowning all the time how? at tis stage, he can feel his mother's emotions le...must be happy for baby ok?
BBK
Do u have a regular cycle like me? for eg, your AF will never report late and always zhun zhun, becos if so, there's a high possibility u might have strike just that maybe the HCG levels not high enought to be detected on the HPT becos it cld alway be due to late O or implantation
Wish u good luck orr...hope to hv more gd news!
Ceraine,
I think u must try to refrain frm too much movements and be careful. If symptoms persist, gd to have bed rest ok, now still at the very fragile stage so better take more precautions.. I know now new job not very gd to take MC but sometimes "qin shi suo bi"...
December,
If u intend to take a break, why not? Ask DH to "give u allowance" can le hehehehehe...(lol) as long as minimise spending, life still goes on ^_^
Indeed this job as compared to the previous one is definitely more "siong" but somehow the environment suits me better bah, at least it keeps me really bz so that I won't have any time to keep my mind running wild *clucks*
Kea
*sayang* *sayang* told u expectant mums cannot keep crying rite? else later bb come out frowning all the time how? at tis stage, he can feel his mother's emotions le...must be happy for baby ok?
BBK
Do u have a regular cycle like me? for eg, your AF will never report late and always zhun zhun, becos if so, there's a high possibility u might have strike just that maybe the HCG levels not high enought to be detected on the HPT becos it cld alway be due to late O or implantation
Ceraine,
I think u must try to refrain frm too much movements and be careful. If symptoms persist, gd to have bed rest ok, now still at the very fragile stage so better take more precautions.. I know now new job not very gd to take MC but sometimes "qin shi suo bi"...
December,
If u intend to take a break, why not? Ask DH to "give u allowance" can le hehehehehe...(lol) as long as minimise spending, life still goes on ^_^
eternitystar
New Member
Rata,
I oso look fwd to the wkend, so that I can zz late late, sing KTV and indulge hahahaha...
I oso look fwd to the wkend, so that I can zz late late, sing KTV and indulge hahahaha...
eternitystar
New Member
Liz,
The last round, u mention that you have 2nd interviews for both firms rite? so any plans for change of environment?
Maybe a change of environment will do you good? See Ceraine just switch not long alrd got good news? maybe a change of fengshui is gd oso...
The last round, u mention that you have 2nd interviews for both firms rite? so any plans for change of environment?
Maybe a change of environment will do you good? See Ceraine just switch not long alrd got good news? maybe a change of fengshui is gd oso...
eternitystar
New Member
Ok gals dunno if u all believe in fengshui, tell u some fengshui tips that I read dunno whether it works ornot lar?
1) Clear off any clusters in your bedroom, be it shelves, drawers & etc...take some time to clean it or watsoever.
2) If you got any paintings or anything in the MBR, best to remove it...wedding pics shd never face the bed.
3) Wife to zz on the right and Dh on the left of the bed
4) To boost fertility, may place pomegranate potraits or "bai zi tu" in the bedroom
Well that's all I can remember, if I do happen to come across any more of such, will update u all *hee hee* I dunno how credible are the tips but no harm trying lar since it won't take up alot of time.
1) Clear off any clusters in your bedroom, be it shelves, drawers & etc...take some time to clean it or watsoever.
2) If you got any paintings or anything in the MBR, best to remove it...wedding pics shd never face the bed.
3) Wife to zz on the right and Dh on the left of the bed
4) To boost fertility, may place pomegranate potraits or "bai zi tu" in the bedroom
Well that's all I can remember, if I do happen to come across any more of such, will update u all *hee hee* I dunno how credible are the tips but no harm trying lar since it won't take up alot of time.
depurplelicious
New Member
Ceraine,
Agreed with them, better go see doc, dun wait. Dun worry abt wat ur boss think. Cos if he really good he will understand. Ur priority now is baby.
Thanks. See when u free, I go over ur hse and download. hehe....
BBK,
Ya, do test again. Or maybe check ur BBT in the morning?
Cute,
Me thinking of quitting next year too. Told myself, if by then still not preg, I'll leave. Cos some changes here and I dun think I can tahan my new boss. A few unhappy incidents recently.
Agreed with them, better go see doc, dun wait. Dun worry abt wat ur boss think. Cos if he really good he will understand. Ur priority now is baby.
Thanks. See when u free, I go over ur hse and download. hehe....
BBK,
Ya, do test again. Or maybe check ur BBT in the morning?
Cute,
Me thinking of quitting next year too. Told myself, if by then still not preg, I'll leave. Cos some changes here and I dun think I can tahan my new boss. A few unhappy incidents recently.
Hi Dec & E*
hmm..I would say my menses does report on time ..but there was a day delay few months back.. =)
As for stress level, hmm..no stress le..but just that more work and alot of more things happened in the month of november.. Hence, i dun rule out the possibility of AF delayed due to that... heehee...=)
Haizz... shall see how la.... =)
hmm..I would say my menses does report on time ..but there was a day delay few months back.. =)
As for stress level, hmm..no stress le..but just that more work and alot of more things happened in the month of november.. Hence, i dun rule out the possibility of AF delayed due to that... heehee...=)
Haizz... shall see how la.... =)
hee... ya lor, Cute O.
but then poor DH will be very xiong.
Liz, hhmm... can consider no pay leave. but my job now is accounts one and i'm the only one who knows how to do it. (company is a small one and there's no backup for me.
) thus, wondering whether company will accept this. just like i want to go for op, actually is scheduled for this month one but becos of budget, boss wants me to standby and don allow me to go. tell me to go next month instead. i hope nothing else will come up to hinder from me going (unless of cos it's good news!) hee...
when u go do SO-IUI, can ask doc to give some days of MC? at least you can stay at home to rest during the crucial period.
hee.... yesterday i was just telling my DH this too and he said then we BD after bathing then he go and do his things. wahaha... and also to open up the wall to do a walk thru from the study room to our bedroom. keke...
Starry,
I wish to but hhmm... cos i have my own commitments and still repaying my study loan. so also afraid don have job. cos DH is burdened too. I don wan to add to his burdens lor. His family burden quite heavy that's why.
If I don have my study loan, I think I can survive. At most, I go and give some tuition or just do part-time work and can relax relax. hee...
but then poor DH will be very xiong.
Liz, hhmm... can consider no pay leave. but my job now is accounts one and i'm the only one who knows how to do it. (company is a small one and there's no backup for me.
when u go do SO-IUI, can ask doc to give some days of MC? at least you can stay at home to rest during the crucial period.
hee.... yesterday i was just telling my DH this too and he said then we BD after bathing then he go and do his things. wahaha... and also to open up the wall to do a walk thru from the study room to our bedroom. keke...
Starry,
I wish to but hhmm... cos i have my own commitments and still repaying my study loan. so also afraid don have job. cos DH is burdened too. I don wan to add to his burdens lor. His family burden quite heavy that's why.
If I don have my study loan, I think I can survive. At most, I go and give some tuition or just do part-time work and can relax relax. hee...
Starry,
photo facing the bed is actually mean the place where it's behind our heads when we sleep? is it? cos mine is there leh.
and i did read before to clear clusters of stuff in the bedroom. but my sidetables are in a mess. especially lots of medications in my drawers cos of TCM and western medication. keke...
and my bed stand is Divan which can store things inside one. few months back, we also cleared it out. ok right? now inside is empty liao.
BBK, maybe you should test again or get another brand to test again this weekend. hopefully will have good news!
photo facing the bed is actually mean the place where it's behind our heads when we sleep? is it? cos mine is there leh.
and i did read before to clear clusters of stuff in the bedroom. but my sidetables are in a mess. especially lots of medications in my drawers cos of TCM and western medication. keke...
and my bed stand is Divan which can store things inside one. few months back, we also cleared it out. ok right? now inside is empty liao.
BBK, maybe you should test again or get another brand to test again this weekend. hopefully will have good news!
ladies,
dropping by to say i am going to inform my boss later.
had a discussion with my senior and she encourage me to be frank to my boss about the pregnancy and likelihood that i might need bedrest. at least the company can make necessary arrangements.
workwise, they will try to cover for me.
i feel so apologetic towards my boss.will be seeing him in half an hour time.
wish me good luck.
Really "nan kai kou"..
went just to check, on -off brown fluid discharge.
dropping by to say i am going to inform my boss later.
had a discussion with my senior and she encourage me to be frank to my boss about the pregnancy and likelihood that i might need bedrest. at least the company can make necessary arrangements.
workwise, they will try to cover for me.
i feel so apologetic towards my boss.will be seeing him in half an hour time.
wish me good luck.
Really "nan kai kou"..
went just to check, on -off brown fluid discharge.
hi all,
told boss liao.He's in for a shock.
Glad he's understanding and say can't stress me for the moment, will reshuffle jobscope,and gotten me to speak to our in-house medic.
So far, discharge cleared. Guess its just old blood.
gynae assured that should be orite unless, touchwood, i see red or sharp pain.
I am going strong, dun worrie
told boss liao.He's in for a shock.
Glad he's understanding and say can't stress me for the moment, will reshuffle jobscope,and gotten me to speak to our in-house medic.
So far, discharge cleared. Guess its just old blood.
gynae assured that should be orite unless, touchwood, i see red or sharp pain.
I am going strong, dun worrie
eternitystar
New Member
Dec...
All i know is wedding pic shd not face the bed. Think to foolproof it, just remove it and move it somewhere else hee hee
Ceraine,
Gd to know that your boss is understanding...meanwhile just have ample rest if possible and minimise movements...
All i know is wedding pic shd not face the bed. Think to foolproof it, just remove it and move it somewhere else hee hee
Ceraine,
Gd to know that your boss is understanding...meanwhile just have ample rest if possible and minimise movements...
cuteoctopus
New Member
E*, u change ur name and I almost didnt noe who u r.
Ceraine, bb comes first n job second. Take care.
April, so u tinking of quitting too? Tis yr end alrdy n i juz tinking tat nxt yr shld be better and different for me. I nw juz trying ard for some new jobs n see how...if nothing turns out well, may juz be SAHM...keke
Juz wonderin', if got a lump of egg-white discharge in middle of cycle, does it mean ovulation?
Ceraine, bb comes first n job second. Take care.
April, so u tinking of quitting too? Tis yr end alrdy n i juz tinking tat nxt yr shld be better and different for me. I nw juz trying ard for some new jobs n see how...if nothing turns out well, may juz be SAHM...keke
Juz wonderin', if got a lump of egg-white discharge in middle of cycle, does it mean ovulation?
cuteoctopus
New Member
E*, u change ur name and I almost didnt noe who u r.
Ceraine, bb comes first n job second. Take care.
April, so u tinking of quitting too? Tis yr end alrdy n i juz tinking tat nxt yr shld be better and different for me. I nw juz trying ard for some new jobs n see how...if nothing turns out well, may juz be SAHM...keke
Juz wonderin', if got a lump of egg-white discharge in middle of cycle, does it mean ovulation?
Ceraine, bb comes first n job second. Take care.
April, so u tinking of quitting too? Tis yr end alrdy n i juz tinking tat nxt yr shld be better and different for me. I nw juz trying ard for some new jobs n see how...if nothing turns out well, may juz be SAHM...keke
Juz wonderin', if got a lump of egg-white discharge in middle of cycle, does it mean ovulation?
eternitystar
New Member
Cute O,
U veri cute leh.. hee hee..but somehow u still recognise me wor...
SAHM I oso want leh, but dun think got tis fortune to do so wor...hmmmmm....
Eggwhite cld mean that O is arriving! Must Jia You Orr!!
Dec,
I think so wor....anyway i had mine removed from the bedroom le...now it's sitting in another part of the house ke ke...
U veri cute leh.. hee hee..but somehow u still recognise me wor...
SAHM I oso want leh, but dun think got tis fortune to do so wor...hmmmmm....
Eggwhite cld mean that O is arriving! Must Jia You Orr!!
Dec,
I think so wor....anyway i had mine removed from the bedroom le...now it's sitting in another part of the house ke ke...
eternitystar
New Member
Rata,
The other time when we first moved in, my father alrd told us not to put wedding pics in the bedroom le esp facing the bed. My Dad is pretty much into fengshui, so he will gimme some tips time to time hahahaha....shang nao jing...
See whether the change in fengshui will enhance any luck ornot??
Dec,
A word of advice but still up to you whether u want to heed ornot lar...MBR best not to keep medication stuff inside becos medicine always associated with problems...so it's best to keep them away in the kitchen (stored away). MBR is best to keep it clean neat and tidy with no clusters of barang barang ard...
The other time when we first moved in, my father alrd told us not to put wedding pics in the bedroom le esp facing the bed. My Dad is pretty much into fengshui, so he will gimme some tips time to time hahahaha....shang nao jing...
See whether the change in fengshui will enhance any luck ornot??
Dec,
A word of advice but still up to you whether u want to heed ornot lar...MBR best not to keep medication stuff inside becos medicine always associated with problems...so it's best to keep them away in the kitchen (stored away). MBR is best to keep it clean neat and tidy with no clusters of barang barang ard...
ylang_ylang
Member
hi ceraine ,congrate!so happi to hear the good news,so o late will not affect the chance of conceiving ,u had proof it.must take good care of urself.by the way this is how many cycle then u have strike.
ylang_ylang
Member
so low temperature dont mean dont have chance.
hi all,
sorry for not updating.by Dr cheng's advise, i rush down to TCM.
had a jab of pro?? (duno wats its called, but supposed to stablize the baby and reduce the discharge)
am given 1 week hospital leave and ordered no walking..need resting!!
however.i was quite upset over the whole episode.
when i arrived in TCM, Dr Cheng was in operating theatre, and i was told all the gynae, nurses knocked off.
the recept/A&E was instructed to jab me.
however, they still like go slowly with it, bill me before jab!!! faint!!!! is $$ more critical at this stage?
also, i requested for H/L, but was told gynae nto ard, no one to sign it. and i needs to be back tmr for collection! another big faint!!!
Else get someone to collect on my behalf.
i was so damn pissed and upset over it. called the hotline and another gynae ask me to see as she is expecting me. however i was told by nurse to go back after jab.
even more confused, i thought i was to be admiteed. as i was charged registration fee for admission or something like that, $65. end up that is for issuance of hospital leave.
realli, i was very disapppointed with TMC. Given the premium $$$$ we pay, should be getting premium service
sorry for not updating.by Dr cheng's advise, i rush down to TCM.
had a jab of pro?? (duno wats its called, but supposed to stablize the baby and reduce the discharge)
am given 1 week hospital leave and ordered no walking..need resting!!
however.i was quite upset over the whole episode.
when i arrived in TCM, Dr Cheng was in operating theatre, and i was told all the gynae, nurses knocked off.
the recept/A&E was instructed to jab me.
however, they still like go slowly with it, bill me before jab!!! faint!!!! is $$ more critical at this stage?
also, i requested for H/L, but was told gynae nto ard, no one to sign it. and i needs to be back tmr for collection! another big faint!!!
Else get someone to collect on my behalf.
i was so damn pissed and upset over it. called the hotline and another gynae ask me to see as she is expecting me. however i was told by nurse to go back after jab.
even more confused, i thought i was to be admiteed. as i was charged registration fee for admission or something like that, $65. end up that is for issuance of hospital leave.
realli, i was very disapppointed with TMC. Given the premium $$$$ we pay, should be getting premium service
ylang ylang,
for my case, temp was like 36.7, 36.6,36.5,36.4 and shot to 36.6 dip every decimal and shot again.
i thought no chance too, till on the day i tested +ve on bloodtest, i was 36.61.
it oli signifies progesterone level is low, tats y fluctuating
so dun worrie too much.
k, till next sat, i have ample time to chat with u guys..kekeke
for my case, temp was like 36.7, 36.6,36.5,36.4 and shot to 36.6 dip every decimal and shot again.
i thought no chance too, till on the day i tested +ve on bloodtest, i was 36.61.
it oli signifies progesterone level is low, tats y fluctuating
so dun worrie too much.
k, till next sat, i have ample time to chat with u guys..kekeke
depurplelicious
New Member
Cute,
ya lor, thinking of quitting next year if still no news from bb. hehe....
Already cannot tahan liao. been taking leave on and off. Everytime go back ofc, sick of them. Everythings seems to go wrong all the time. When I go back, nid to clear so much rubbish and ans for those stupid mistakes others made. Really no more energy to be angry.
ya lor, thinking of quitting next year if still no news from bb. hehe....
Already cannot tahan liao. been taking leave on and off. Everytime go back ofc, sick of them. Everythings seems to go wrong all the time. When I go back, nid to clear so much rubbish and ans for those stupid mistakes others made. Really no more energy to be angry.
eternitystar
New Member
Ohayo Gals...
April....must remain calm, I know sometimes such situations are darn irritating and it really affect our mood but if really can't tolerate further just throw the letter, I believe it's not that difficult to get another job with your abilities. Perhaps a change of environment will do the trick?! *wink wink*
April....must remain calm, I know sometimes such situations are darn irritating and it really affect our mood but if really can't tolerate further just throw the letter, I believe it's not that difficult to get another job with your abilities. Perhaps a change of environment will do the trick?! *wink wink*
depurplelicious
New Member
Ceraine,
Good that ur boss is understanding.
Wow, TMC really too much wor. HL oso nid to pay? Strange.
Rest well. Dun walk ard huh. Stay in bed, play ur PSP or chat wif us in bed.
Good that ur boss is understanding.
Wow, TMC really too much wor. HL oso nid to pay? Strange.
Rest well. Dun walk ard huh. Stay in bed, play ur PSP or chat wif us in bed.
depurplelicious
New Member
E*,
Here really not a good plc to stay anymore. They decided everything and pretend to discuss wif us. But their intention is to persuade us to believe their ways are rite.
Have u all ever heard of boss saying wan to rotate jobscopes? I really dun look forward to that. Cos they wan to rotate 3 of us, each of us do the job for 3 mths then change. But have they think, if one of them dun do well and when the other person take over, isn't it messy? If one of them quit then how?
Hope I really can find a job and leave. Tmr Dec liao. Pray hard.
Now thinking, if strike, still wan to quit or not? How? sob sob.....
Here really not a good plc to stay anymore. They decided everything and pretend to discuss wif us. But their intention is to persuade us to believe their ways are rite.
Have u all ever heard of boss saying wan to rotate jobscopes? I really dun look forward to that. Cos they wan to rotate 3 of us, each of us do the job for 3 mths then change. But have they think, if one of them dun do well and when the other person take over, isn't it messy? If one of them quit then how?
Hope I really can find a job and leave. Tmr Dec liao. Pray hard.
Now thinking, if strike, still wan to quit or not? How? sob sob.....
