Hi shiseru,
hiyah! i want to smack u! how can u say u're a failure? i used to think like that,but i tell myself i went thru' so much to get preg even the 1st time,i calculated the dates to BD etc,i mothered my child the time she was in my belly,i'm not a failure,NEITHER ARE U or any of the gals here.it's juz that ur 'one day' hasn't arrived.now,i tell myself to see results,i must work hard,juz like when i'm in sch.ust stufy to see results,so i'm putting in the hard work to see the results.that keeps me going.someone once told me though i have lost a child,i'm still a mother coz throughout the preg,i cared for my baby juz like a mother would.& that is true,so u must rem,u're not a failure.a failure is someone who says motherhood sucks,not us.