happymummytin
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your courtship not er ren shi ji meh lolz
my courtship is abt 2yrs oni
your courtship not er ren shi ji meh lolz
Haha I was still on the pill when I went for my HM.10yrs...tats very long.er ren shi jie shld b very good for you.for me,no er ren shi jie after marriage,cuz his commando sperm invaded my egg after honeymoon.
but we wanted a baby so much cuz age is catching up for us.
Think I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
Maybe can consider getting a pressure cooker... will make food preparation very easy n fast.Think I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
Maybe can consider getting a pressure cooker... will make food preparation very easy n fast.
I will cook 1 soup n 1 veg with rice whenever I am back home early rather than tapao all the time![]()
Think I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
Think I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
In the past when we stay at our flat my hubby sometimes work late on weekdays. So come weekends, I will prepare beef/ chicken cubes, and hard vege like celery carrot radish turnip and all dump to thermo cooker and play ard with spices n herbs before go gym or movie, after that return home put those stew in tabao boxes for indiv servings cooled and freeze... Hubby will bring these to office fridge to stock up for his OT nights...another way is to bulk cook and freeze/refrigerate every weekend... then reach home heat up food and eat... only for those who are ok with this concept... ang mo familiies like to do this method... actually i also use this method for my baby weaning food storage... gotta make sure your utensils and timing are taken note of...
Take care! I also don't have time or energy to cook and mostly eat out.. but I try buy the soupy stuff most of the time. Sometimes if gt energy ill cook just rice/pasta and eat with pan fried salmon. Beats outside food sometimes..simple and plain.Think I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
Maybe not blaming. .
Sometimes when no ones help me i also feel very depressed n why i have kids so early etc.
But then in our pak tor times i already keep wishing we faster save enough $$$ n get married n have kids so kids n our age gap not too big...
But after having kids = sacrifice our time n energy. . Sometimes we dun get appreciated by hubby too... coz to men loooking after kids is women job.
This one power lolz .. What happen if u give birth at home lolzI just tahan and also coz hubby was late. Ask me to wait 20 mins came 2 hours later
Lolz ok then your er ren Shi Jie abit shortmy courtship is abt 2yrs oni
I go back to my mom place for dinner every weekday night cos my boy is thereThink I kena food poisoning again. Either today bf or last nite dinner. Went my neighbourhood gp and he suspect my puking is due to food poisoning. And after I came home, LS twice.(tmi)...guess my digestive system is weak during my pregnancy. But no choice, most of my meals still hve to settle outside.
Beside sahm, does any working mum get home cook food everyday?
I used to do that .. Slow cooker make soap come back cook rice and wah lah one meal LiaoMaybe can consider getting a pressure cooker... will make food preparation very easy n fast.
I will cook 1 soup n 1 veg with rice whenever I am back home early rather than tapao all the time![]()
Aiyo... Take careJialat my constipation getting worse... Got blood liao... Darn... Hopefully no piles yet... Need to buy fibrogel tml...
Ouch.Jialat my constipation getting worse... Got blood liao... Darn... Hopefully no piles yet... Need to buy fibrogel tml...
Mummies my greatest fear is the delivery itself. Going to try for natural with epidural but the thought still scares me.. how do you all overcome this fear? I even have thoughts of having a c section instead..silly right![]()
At week 27, today first time puke like nobody business...
Had my chicken pie for breakfast then feel bloated n greasy already. Then eat a few mouth of my salad for lunch, go toilet puke. Tot getting better liao then I cont'd my salad, Puke more! Give up. Gg home now.
Week 27 liao still will have ms 1 huh? Or is it food poisoning? I 1st time puke so serious for my pregnancy. In 1st tri, I only nausea no real puking.
haha while i always go around telling ppl to get married and give birth earlier...
What's the easiest way to get mc fr gp?
I hardly sick before, during and after pregnant.
Now body aching after running around with my 2yr old boy for hours.
Dun think can take mc for body aching. No morning sickness now too.
Dun noe hw to geng mc![]()
I don't think it's difficult for preggie to get mc from gp..haha. Usually they are quite kind and understanding and will just give if u ask..Tot if 1 has morning sickness, the face can tell. As in look pale.
Will everyone have to do this? So far my gynae didn't say anything yet..i did my Glucose Test this morning. Fasted since 12.00 midnight last night and my glucose test was scheduled at 9.05am but gynae wanted to see me & do a short scan etc.. So only managed to do the test at about 10.00am.
They drew 1 tube of blood from me 1st, then made me drink this Glucose drink from a bottle. SO SWEET!
It tasted like Orange cordial with a ratio of 80:20 to water. hahaha
But at that time i was just glad to have something to drink because i was so thirsty! Im supposed to wait for 2hours before the next blood test and that 2 hours is torturous because i was so hungry and so sleepy. I didn't know whether i was looking forward to eat or to sleep!
Now hoping that the hospital don't call me. Cos no news means good news! Very scared of Gestational Diabetes leh.
My wish is also to be a sahm cos I don't wanna miss out on my kids' impt milestones esp during their first few years.. However I don't know if I'll be able to take it yet. We shall see for #1 this time.. my colleague planned to go on NPL aft her maternity leave but she said she can't be with her kid 24/7..not that she don't like the kid but she realised that she's not the stay home kind..Same here. I always encourage my friends in long term relationship to get married and have babies as soon as they are ready. Sometimes things don't go as planned. It doesn't mean that when we want, we will definitely have babies at that time.
I believe it's all fated too. I don't think I made plans to marry young and have kids early, but it has always been my dream to have a family I can call my own since I was a little girl. Eight years down the road, we are still happily married and #3 on the way. We go through ups and downs during our journey. But our kids still take up the highest priority in our hearts. What couple time, me time or travel around the world, we feel can wait till later..but our kids are growing up too fast. They are only young this once. They can't wait!! And we are trying to catch up. Haha.. Thus my decision to be a sahm from the moment i knew i was preggy so I can witness every single milestone. It's been 7 years. And I still enjoy what I'm doing for the kids.![]()
I also dunno how to geng so I always guai guai take urgent leave or go work lolzWhat's the easiest way to get mc fr gp?
I hardly sick before, during and after pregnant.
Now body aching after running around with my 2yr old boy for hours.
Dun think can take mc for body aching. No morning sickness now too.
Dun noe hw to geng mc![]()
Not all.Will everyone have to do this? So far my gynae didn't say anything yet..
I see from your colleague point of view lolz ... I need to work for someMy wish is also to be a sahm cos I don't wanna miss out on my kids' impt milestones esp during their first few years.. However I don't know if I'll be able to take it yet. We shall see for #1 this time.. my colleague planned to go on NPL aft her maternity leave but she said she can't be with her kid 24/7..not that she don't like the kid but she realised that she's not the stay home kind..
I see from your colleague point of view lolz ... I need to work for someMy wish is also to be a sahm cos I don't wanna miss out on my kids' impt milestones esp during their first few years.. However I don't know if I'll be able to take it yet. We shall see for #1 this time.. my colleague planned to go on NPL aft her maternity leave but she said she can't be with her kid 24/7..not that she don't like the kid but she realised that she's not the stay home kind..
i feel insecure too. the worst thing that can happen is I have no money, no house , no job, no skills and my husband dumps meI see from your colleague point of view lolz ... I need to work for some
Sanity lolz and also think single income in Singapore quite difficult and I dun like the idea of putting out my hand to take money from
Hubby .. Very insecure lolz but that is me .. IMHO going out to work and not being 24/7 with the child through their growth year doesn't make me a bad mom .. Of course some Sahm will disagree ... anyway it is diff prospective lah
What's the easiest way to get mc fr gp?
I hardly sick before, during and after pregnant.
Now body aching after running around with my 2yr old boy for hours.
Dun think can take mc for body aching. No morning sickness now too.
Dun noe hw to geng mc![]()
yah yah i have seen cases ..distant friends going through that ... say for sake of children stopped working ..and the hubby got flareup always working and the housechore expense just kept expanding and go out find the comfort in other woman arm ..ended up divorce and now that friend got to pick up her life again to work for children ..etci feel insecure too. the worst thing that can happen is I have no money, no house , no job, no skills and my husband dumps me
can meh ...that sound so genging lehJust tell them you feel tired etc. wanna rest. Now preggy easy to take MC.![]()
yah yah i have seen cases ..distant friends going through that ... say for sake of children stopped working ..and the hubby got flareup always working and the housechore expense just kept expanding and go out find the comfort in other woman arm ..ended up divorce and now that friend got to pick up her life again to work for children ..etc
man today are not like in the past... man in past .. are sole breadwinner ..and woman stay at home take care of children and this kind of thinking continue til death but man today see woman educated and start working and has income after graduation so suddenly break that chain and expect them to feed these woman when woman they themselve has the ability to earn... mayb very unbalance so that is why separation / divorce happened cos the thinking is diff from past ... why should he be the one that bring in the rice ...etc
but of course it all depend on man lahnot all man are like that ..so it is heng suai
can meh ...that sound so genging leh
Maybe can consider getting a pressure cooker... will make food preparation very easy n fast.
I will cook 1 soup n 1 veg with rice whenever I am back home early rather than tapao all the time![]()
Jialat my constipation getting worse... Got blood liao... Darn... Hopefully no piles yet... Need to buy fibrogel tml...
If my hubby nv drop everything n come home straight i will kill him ..lolThis one power lolz .. What happen if u give birth at home lolz
Haha same..This is my #3 but my biggest fear is still the labour and delivery. Especially when I had a traumatic experience for my #1 and enjoyable experience for my #2. I am not sure how #3 will turn out and I am very worried that I will not be in time for epidural. Epidural is a painless procedure if we don't go and read up or watch videos about it. I used to secretly hope I will end up with a c-section via GA too. Lol
But!!! When time comes, everything seems to fall in place. All I could think about was to hold baby in my arms the soonest possible. Especially towards the final stage of labour, what episotomy or stitches, I didn't care anymore. I just cannot take my eyes off baby the moment I heard the first cry. I think it's the maternal instincts at work. From that moment all I could think about was the baby.
So just go with the flow. Worrying is normal. But at the end of the day, everything will fall in place when time comes.![]()
Will everyone have to do this? So far my gynae didn't say anything yet..
wah you power lolz...i haben use a single MC this year lolzIf I go my regular gp, tell him headache, he see preggy will give 2 days mc. But point is my mc all used up liao lol
i very unlucky with MC be it pregnant or not pregnant cos i dun look sick to doc they dun give mc ..hahaha can lah. Say headache etc. Tat day i went gynae check i say i wan 2 days MC, he just give without asking much. Hahahaha Nw preggy we easily have backache etc, they will understand de.
That time 1st trimester got some spotting. Doc straight give 1 week liao. Then go chkup I also use mc. I dun take timeoff de. But 3rd trimester I must consider timeoff liao lol must save up my annual leave.wah you power lolz...i haben use a single MC this year lolz
wat is the point of blood test if you dun take the sweet drink ? . you can only find out how much sugar your body retain after fasting but you dunno how your body react when consume the drinkI rejected the glucose test... i juz took the blood test without the sweet drink... then see how from there.
My baby i around 800g today hehe![]()
wah you power lolz...i haben use a single MC this year lolz
All my gynae appointments are covered by MC...i very unlucky with MC be it pregnant or not pregnant cos i dun look sick to doc they dun give mc ..
All my gynae appointments are covered by MC...
If you don't feel well enough to work, then you need an MC. If doc don't offer, I will ask doctor directly for the MC...