For my #1, i start to reccee for prams since it's majiam like buying a car. Took me 6mths before found the one. Now #2, I already bought 0-3mths essential clothes for unisex and wrote of list of items to get. I find that now #2, I know what is required, so will want to get it over and done with b4 3rd trimester. Coz will be as clumsy and heavy as a cow and difficult to move around.
For first time mothers, good to get hospital bag ready round 8mths. My hubby kiasu and got ready by 7mths. So that can grab and go hosp.
Hika: you are very brave. Mine will be age gap of 2.5years.
Anyone not planning to find out the gender like me? =P