Hi mummies, i am in dilemma now, see if any of u can help me...>.<
I previously commented abt my CL here, by then i was thinking left 1 more week just bear with her and try to learn as much as i can. However, more things happened this week which really pissed me off big time!
1 of my twin boys who is on full breastmilk threw up milk quite alot of times yest and were really quite a significant amt (merlion kind). We not sure issit becos we tried to feed him 1-2 times formula milk yest or like what my CL claimed that his stomach is windy....not knowing what to do, we reduced e feeding amt, hoping he can at least take in some milk. Then yest nite, worried my boys will throw up again at night, i reminded my CL and maid to be alert for night feeding.
Then at 5 am, i woke up seeing CL and maid feeding 1 baby each, as my CL has the history of mixed up e babies, i ask her who she was feeding to double confirm. And then she actually replied me she was feeding baby A when she was actu holding baby B who was not feeling well yest!!! and e milk bottle she was holding contained at least 100ml of breastmilk which neither of my babies drink that much now!! (1 drink 80ml while e other drink 70ml)
I really got so angry that i asked her y she made such mistake until now and if she has any idea how much milk has she already fed baby B...she started to give me excuses, saying she jus blur when i asking her Q and even blamed my maid for confusing her when she prepared e milk, then assured me that she just started feeding so baby B didnt drink any milk actually etc...i can close 1 eye for such "careless" mistake during normal days, but now my boy was not feeling well and she actually made such mistake which really worries me...i questioned her if she really take care of twins before, if she is as experienced with twins as she claimed, how come she until last week of confinement, still cant recognise my twin boys who are actually non-identical twins? (my maid can differentiate them within 1 wk)
My CL also not v happy with my remarks and started to blame my maid and my mum who was previously stayed with us for a week, she said cant blame her for not recognising them cos she take care of baby A most of e times cos my mum and maid always prefer baby B so she didnt bother to differentiate them...and best thing was she told me e twins she took care before were all 1 boy and 1 gal, and mine happened to be twin boys.................................how can she give such irresponsible answer?? so it become my prob that i have twin boys and not 1 boy 1 gal???
now i actually feel like asking her to leave immediately and thinking if i shd pay her e full amt since she does not meet e standard??